No because you met in college. I was a 19 yr old junior with a 24 yr old he was also military but he was the sophomore.

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It’s a little wide but what’s really important is safety and equal power dynamics, as well as if the 23 y/o picked a 19 year old with the age gap being incentivizing or accidental. It can def work

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Its not so much the gap, because if you were 30 and 34, it wouldn’t be a problem. It’s that when you’re in your teens and 20s that few years can seem like a lot because you’re at such different stages. I would be cautious, but it’s not a deal breaker.

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Not at all. This was my bestie and her bf age gap they been together for 5 years now n

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I think that’s a fair age gap

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A true age gap is 15+ years

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