Anonymous #1 10w

Oh yeah, fs. I meant just ppl of those ages dating each other. I feel like there’s decent chances of that happening in a college town.

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Anonymous #3 10w

Why?

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Anonymous OP 10w

Gross when seeking someone that literally just stopped being a teenager and cant drink when you are old enough to know better (yes the years between being 20 and 25 are drastic and change a person significantly)

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Anonymous #2 10w

Wdym know better? To clarify, I don’t mean specifically seek out someone that age. I mean u just happen to meet someone that age.

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Anonymous OP 10w

I mean sure but even then its still creepy. Not saying it makes you a predator automatically but it does raise major red flags that you are attracted to people less mature than you. And the original post was someone specifically seeking that out so like

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Anonymous OP 10w

Like ill put it this way; the 20 year old has only been out of high school for two years tops. The 24 yo has been out for at least 5 or 6. Its a big leap. After both parties are at least 25 its not a significant difference but theres a huge developmental milestone that happens around the ages of 18-22 because its the first time youre really given any real independence

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Anonymous #2 10w

Once someone learns how to stand on their own two feet and has an understanding of themselves and the outside world (usually completed in some way by 25-ish) they can stand up for themselves in a way a younger person really doesnt usually know how to. And thats why people find it attractive usually. Its extremely easy to manipulate

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Anonymous #2 10w

Idk if it’s more or less of a red flag if I’m still working on being independent

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