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If I am the only one texting first should I stop talking to them?
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Anonymous 3w

Doing this is practically a requirement to successfully get a date as a guy

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Anonymous 3w

Tbh, yeah. Communication regardless of gender should go both ways and if they make zero effort to reciprocate when you don't start the conversation first then they weren't that interested in the first place

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

😅 i just feel like im being pushy. She seems to like talking to me and doesnt text dry, but i dont want to come off as desperate or anything like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Yeah I’m a guy, personally I just leave when they do that and if they ghost then they probably aren’t that interested. Like you have to ask yourself if you looked twice as good would they give you the same treatment? (Probably not)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Fair point. I’ll probably talk to her for a bit longer and hopefully she gets comfortable enough to text first. If not then it is what it is

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

They don’t have to “become comfortable” for guys they lust over assuming she’s not like a girl who’s never had a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

She seems really reserved and honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if she hasnt been in a relationship. Shes got a super low snap score and keeps to herself a lot.

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