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Ask Women 1w
does anyone else hate when guys try and flirt with you by teasing you at your expense? like no you insinuating i’m not as smart as you isn’t foreplay, i’m genuinely offended and don’t like you anymore
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Anonymous 1w

negging is so fucking annoying but at least it makes it easy to weed these guys out

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Anonymous 1w

“OH MY GOD YOU KNOW (insert thing here)?! THATS IMPRESSIVE BECAUSE GIRLS NORMALLY DONT KNOW THAT” Ick.

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Anonymous 1w

Yeah when they do that, I can usually just hit them with “scoreboard”. My ex did it once. I was doing little quirky me things, and he did the same thing his way, which was slightly more efficient. He then said “huh, maybe men are smarter than women”, so I reminded him who always beats him in chess. Never heard that one again 😂

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Anonymous 1w

Men who put “bullying you 🤪” as their love language on hinge 🚩 Like it just makes you horny to demean women and you should be ashamed of that

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Anonymous 1w

so how should we flirt with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Not putting women down or trying to make yourself look better because you “know more”. Just be kind and respectful

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

by being nice instead of mean? hello?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Gonna scream I hate that bullshit so much. Oooh, everyone knows girls don’t listen to music!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

stop being an asshole and calling it flirting

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Find things you like about them and things you can both connect with. Talk about things that are important to both of you. Learn her interests, and learn to see them through her eyes. Actually connect as humans.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Yeah obviously, he’s now my ex.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

isn’t the point of flirting to be playful? you should be able to make jokes about each other.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

you should be able to be playful without being mean, if that's what you're going for

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

that’s up to interpretation though. i can mean for something to be lightheaded and you could take it as being mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

lighthearted*

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

yeah that's on you. you can easily say things which would not ever be interpreted as mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

That’s not true. Anything can be interpreted as mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

If you are not socially capable of knowing when you are being mean and when you are making a joke you probably aren’t ready to be in a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

What? I always know when I’m being mean or making a joke.

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