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Ask Women 2w
How fast do you want a guy responding to you who you just started talking with
#poll
Respond fast (1-2 mins)
Respond in 5-10 mins
Take time (30mins to a few hours)
Guy wanting to know
131 votes
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Anonymous 2w

Whenever you see a message. Timing responses is weird.

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Anonymous 2w

Just whenever you see it however long it takes

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Anonymous 2w

How ever fast or slow you’re comfortable with. Be yourself and if they don’t like that or cant communicate what they want they aren’t for you.

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Anonymous 2w

guy asking: what is thought behind wanting them to take a long time? I understand why it WORKS on people – making you anticipate rather than give instant satisfaction – but why would you want that if you could pick?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

But I’m also AuHD and this is a social norm ig so maybe someone else has a “don’t seem too eager” take or some shit.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

some girls think it’s too desperate to respond fast

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

but would they really prefer to be texting someone who just waits an arbitrary amount of time to reply purely because of how it looks? that seems way worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Which is dumb high school bs.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

That seemed weird and dumb even in high school.

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