Anonymous #1 3w

Generally speaking is there smthg impressive tho? Can‘t be money tho, cuz I’m a student 😭

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Anonymous #2 3w

Being good at smthg?

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yeah that’s an example

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Anonymous #2 3w

Generally tho, being good at smthg is impressive, right? Let‘s say I‘m uber smart and musically talented

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yeah, but different people are attracted to different skills

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Anonymous #2 3w

I feel like women often like guys who are smart and guys who sing or play an instrument tho

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yes often, but again, not everyone likes the same things so it’s not a guarantee that you’ll be seen as attractive to everyone

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Anonymous #2 3w

Ofc

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Anonymous OP 3w

Well, being a generally good person, considering her wants/needs, being fun to be around, being able to suggest an actual date (it’s about the effort, not the expense,) are all things that make a good impression

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Anonymous OP 3w

If you’re actually a musician, that’s awesome, and I think a good number of women find that impressive. I do. But I think the best use of your time is to develop skills in things that you really care about. The women who would be impressed by your actual interests are more likely to be the ones who will actually be compatible

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Anonymous OP 3w

Simply saying it doesn’t make it true.

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