Anonymous #1 10w

Generally speaking is there smthg impressive tho? Can‘t be money tho, cuz I’m a student 😭

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Anonymous #2 10w

Being good at smthg?

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Anonymous OP 10w

Yeah that’s an example

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Anonymous #2 10w

Generally tho, being good at smthg is impressive, right? Let‘s say I‘m uber smart and musically talented

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Anonymous OP 10w

Yeah, but different people are attracted to different skills

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Anonymous #2 10w

I feel like women often like guys who are smart and guys who sing or play an instrument tho

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Anonymous OP 10w

Yes often, but again, not everyone likes the same things so it’s not a guarantee that you’ll be seen as attractive to everyone

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Anonymous #2 10w

Ofc

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Anonymous OP 10w

Well, being a generally good person, considering her wants/needs, being fun to be around, being able to suggest an actual date (it’s about the effort, not the expense,) are all things that make a good impression

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Anonymous OP 10w

If you’re actually a musician, that’s awesome, and I think a good number of women find that impressive. I do. But I think the best use of your time is to develop skills in things that you really care about. The women who would be impressed by your actual interests are more likely to be the ones who will actually be compatible

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Anonymous OP 10w

Simply saying it doesn’t make it true.

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