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Tell me I’m not crazy… your boyfriend isn’t supposed to leave you crying for the forth day in a row to hang with friends, after you told him you really needed his emotional support, right?
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Anonymous 3w

✨Dump his ass. Dress up hot and go out Queen. ✨

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Anonymous 3w

yeah you’re not crazy, your bf doesn’t care about you.

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Anonymous 3w

as a guy. respectfully. dump him

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Anonymous 3w

O hell na

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Anonymous 3w

He will never keep u happy. He clearly only cares about himself and his damn homeboys

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Anonymous 3w

Not to be rude, but if you’re crying for 4 days you probably need to seek professional help

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Anonymous 3w

Leave him

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Anonymous 3w

We know no context here. Immediately suggesting a breakup in the comments isn’t beneficial. However, yes the boyfriend should be there supporting you that’s cooked. This is definitely something that should be addressed.

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Anonymous 3w

break up w ur man rn

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Anonymous 3w

How the fuck can’t I find a girl? How he bag you, what he do to even get a girl

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Anonymous 3w

The fact that GUYS are saying to run ..

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Anonymous 3w

*fourth. This is college. 🙃

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Anonymous 3w

beat his ass

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Anonymous 3w

Priorities babes. If he’s not taking care of u when ur in distress like this, then it’s time to let him go.

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Anonymous 3w

NO LEAVE HIS STUPID ASS QUEEN

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Anonymous 3w

not sure if anyone cares, but we ended things today ❤️ it was mutual and peaceful.

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Anonymous 3w

Oh no… you mean ex bf right?

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Anonymous 3w

WHAT

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Anonymous 3w

I mean I don’t know the context but if he’s done that four days in a row that sounds.. pretty bad. Like, he needs to take care of himself too especially when you need his support but you two should figure that out and the balance of that where he can support you without burning himself out in a way that you know what’s going on and have an amount of support you can rely on

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Anonymous 3w

I wouldn’t do that

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Anonymous 3w

Sweetie, that man is not a man. You are unique and should be treated that way. If you are you and he doesn’t see you for all that you are, then find better friends. We are all unique and the one that is right will recognize that you are just what they had dreamed for.

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Anonymous 3w

hell no he needs to get his act together

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Anonymous 3w

Holy shit this guy needs to run

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

oh absolutely !! definitely he better run while he can, because asking for emotional support is clearly too much for his snowflake self… i’m sure it hits a little too close to home for you too, stay strong pal <3

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

Reasonable to be avoidant when you’re not capable of dealing with something

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

That’s fair. I have support and I’m working on it. I wasn’t crying nonstop for four days or begging him to be my therapist or fix my pain. I’m dealing with something really hard right now and just needed some empathy from my long-term partner. I wasn’t expecting him to handle my pain or be my therapist, just a bit of understanding seems reasonable when life’s tough

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Four days isn’t long if you’re crying for months then yes. Week or two, life happens and sucks and people should be there supporting you. Working through something won’t happen in 4 days that’s unreasonable

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You’re not asking for much don’t listen to #7 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

I never said they were asking for too much

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

lol who are u to tell someone they need professional help??

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

I think a rational person can assess that some issues go beyond casual intervention. Post read as if she’d been crying for 4 days straight

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

I mean, like, sometimes there are things like the loss of a loved one that can just be really intense to process and deal with

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 3w

I mean, generally that kind of emotional space is not a good one to start a relationship in so how someone responds to those kinds of situations isn’t gonna determine whether or not they get with someone in the first place

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 3w

Of course and sometimes that necessitates professional help, not always, but not never

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

People handle things differently 4 days may be too much for u, 4 days may not be enough for someone else. Some people need a week to or even a month to fully process things yk. If it’s preventing you from doing your day to day things, that’s different, and may require some support.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Ok babe

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