Ask Women on Yik Yak | My best friend has had a bf for a year now and I knew we’d get less close which is fine, recently tho if we make plans to hangout she’ll cancel and make up an excuse but then I see her location at his house. Should I call her out or leave it?

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Ask Women 12w

My best friend has had a bf for a year now and I knew we’d get less close which is fine, recently tho if we make plans to hangout she’ll cancel and make up an excuse but then I see her location at his house. Should I call her out or leave it?

Anonymous 12w

Honestly you could do both. If you leave it then the friendship will more than likely either die out naturally or you two may just not be as close as yall use to be. If you "call her out" don't be so accusatory. Just express how you feel and your perspective on her behavior towards you and planning to hangout. Maybe as if she's still interested in being friends.

Anonymous 12w

I don’t mind that she’s hanging out with him it’s just like I would rather her tell me that rather than wake up a fake excuse

Anonymous 12w

If you haven’t brought it up to her at all, I’d at least bring it up once.maybe she just isn’t very aware. If she keeps doing it again and again after you communicate, let it happen and let the friendship die out.

Anonymous 12w

Don’t put in more energy than you’re receiving. Redirect it elsewhere 🫶🏼