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I’m a dude and I have a question for women. If a chick I’ve been talking to likes art would asking her on a date to an art museum for a first date be a good idea? I don’t wanna be basic like coffee or something
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Anonymous 16w

That sounds like a great idea

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Anonymous 16w

Yes!

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Anonymous 16w

Go to one that she probably haven’t gone to and fits her interests. (Using NY as an example) Does she like art history? Go to the MET; contemporary? MOMA.

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Anonymous 16w

This is great, shows her that you’re not only taking initiative on planning but you’re also showing that you care about her interests

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Anonymous 16w

As long as it’s something you will also enjoy and enjoy talking about, and you’re okay with the possibility she gets really distracted from you by some of the art itself, it sounds very cute and like a lot of fun! I’d maybe suggest planning for it to have like some loose plan before or after the museum to give you a chance to just kinda chat and get to know each other better too but the museum as the main thing sounds great! Like, going for a little walk together near the museum or something

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Anonymous 16w

PERFECT!! Thoughtfulness and awareness go a longgggg way🙌🏻

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Anonymous 16w

Do it, and maybe a small thing of flowers

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Anonymous 16w

100% yes. If you don’t know much about art yourself, don’t pretend to know more than you do. Be honest that you don’t know much but that you’d like to learn :)

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Anonymous 16w

That would be amazing!

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Anonymous 16w

YES!!! It shows that you're willing to engage with her interests (especially if art is not really your thing).

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Anonymous 16w

yes

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Anonymous 16w

That would be an awesome idea!!!

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Anonymous 16w

Update: she did not like it

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 16w

O

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Anonymous 16w

Me and my bff both had the reaction of “she likes art but not art museums?! What a weirdo!” It was a great & thoughtful idea, sorry it didn’t work out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 16w

She liked the museum, but it wasn’t a “first date type of place”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Aw man :( you can't plan for that kinda reaction, it was a good idea anyway

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