I think same color but different hue is a safe bet, especially if it's blue! Blue is already a super common color and it's even more normal considering it's a nautical wedding

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I’m so serious, ask her. You guys had a formerly strained relationship, and you don’t want to exacerbate it by overstepping by dressing the same as other or not reading the room and wearing a different color. Communication is a very important step in mending relationships. Just be like hi what color would you like me to wear?

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it’s a nautical themed wedding in the evening, and the color is navy. i don’t want to ask her, because we only started talking again a couple weeks before the wedding, but i don’t want it to seem like i didn’t expect that/wasn’t prepared.

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also i’m concerned that a lot of people are going to wear blue to a nautical wedding, and we have a big family, so i’m going to look insane in family photos if everyone but me wears blue. but i also don’t want to look like i’m trying to be a bridesmaid even though i’m not or pick the wrong shade of navy and clash.

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No

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