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Ask Women 12w
a talking stage just told me i can skip swimming when i visit if im not comfortable with him seeing me in a swimsuit yet...... without prompt.... i was given a guiltless choice... im in love, are my standards in hell or is this like green flag central
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Anonymous 12w

i def think that’s a green flag! not all men are that aware

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Anonymous 12w

the bar is so low

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Anonymous 12w

I’m so happy for you, Girly!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

he said i need to raise my standards lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

right?! but also like is it just basic decency and we are lacking that?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

hmm idk. maybe my standards are in hell too but i don’t think that anticipating that kind of thing is just basic decency. if you said you were uncomfy and he was like oh ofc you don’t have to, THAT is basic decency. i think it’s more than bare minimum to think ahead on this kind of thing, i don’t expect all men to be able to put themselves in our shoes

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