Ask Women on Yik Yak | Ladies, how important is it for men to signal that you’re a priority for them when they’re first getting to know you? Would you prefer having their full attention at all times or that they gradually become interested in you the more you two can talk?

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Ladies, how important is it for men to signal that you’re a priority for them when they’re first getting to know you? Would you prefer having their full attention at all times or that they gradually become interested in you the more you two can talk?

Anonymous 2w

Gradual so it feels more genuine and doesnt feel like you're trying to love bomb or something along those lines. However that doesn't mean there should be an avoidance in giving attention when you want to

Anonymous 2w

I mean I definitely wouldn’t want his full attention at all times, there are other things in life that see important to, but I would want to feel like a priority

Anonymous 2w

I think it’s natural and good to gradually become more interested after getting to know a person just as you would be with any kind of relationship in your life. It’s kinda weird when a guy is off the bed obsessed with me. But also, I think it’s respectful to give someone you’re getting to know your full attention and not play stupid games w it. So full attention in a respectful and not overbearing for someone you’re still getting to know way if that makes sense

Anonymous

#1 2w

Off the bat* not off the bed..

Anonymous

#2 2w

definitely agree with that. my challenge is that I am naturally very friendly and open as a person, hence why I am admittedly great at getting other guys or men to talk about their interests and once got the 7-11 cashier to share their life story with me. The challenge is that, because I like meeting people, I come across as to….dog-like when I meet women I’m excited to talk to, so I either end up coming on way too strong initially OR I end up acting awkward as a result of trying to mask enrgy

Anonymous

#2 1w

I love a slow burn. 🔥