Ask Women on Yik Yak | I have a wlw situationship n she’s going to be my roommate. I’m trying to save money towards my financial goals but it’s been hard not wanting to buy things for her and she’d make comments like “you’re my bank” as a joke. How do I communicate with her ?

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I have a wlw situationship n she’s going to be my roommate. I’m trying to save money towards my financial goals but it’s been hard not wanting to buy things for her and she’d make comments like “you’re my bank” as a joke. How do I communicate with her ?

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Anonymous 12w

oh hell. situationship/ roommate ?? good luck charlie. you need to just tell her straight up, hey its important to me right now to save money which is gonna mean i cant buy you as much as i wanted to. then maybe ask her (if like gift receiving is her love language) what are other ways she feels cared for by you, like what are other ways you could give her that kinda love without spending money. maybe you could make her things or write letters

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Anonymous 12w

the jokes about you being her bank are mad weird tho, even if they are jokes. like make sure she’s not using you

Anonymous 12w

i know it’s hard but straight up tell her no. and if she asks why tell her you won’t do girlfriend activities on a friendship/situationship type of relationship

Anonymous 12w

If you cant set boundaries with her and yall dont like together this is a grave warning to get your shit together or get walked ok wven more. So many of my exes lived with their exes that they couldnt get out of the lease for