Just probably won’t be successful

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it might be successful it might not, i don’t think it’s weird though just maybe wait til she’s not actively doing something 😭

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No it isn’t as a girl we always want to be approached. Maybe just talk to her first and be like “hey what is your name” and then “I think you are really cute” then ask her for her number instead of just straight up asking for her number. I am also in the same situation as a girl having a library crush so I am planning to leave a note to my crush. But I wish you the best luck!

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Without a convo.??? What do you plan on doing with her number? Initial impressions are conversations are what tells us if you’re even worth pursuing or entertaining. Personally if I man or woman can’t hold a conversation I’m not wasting my time because how are we going to get to know each other more?

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I think it’s fine honestly as a girl if someone asked me I’d probably say yes

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It’s not weird

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It’s not weird

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I don't think its weird at all. Worse things worse she says no and you just move on!

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It’s fine just might not Work

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I think a compliment would be more effective, but it’s fine either way

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as long as you don’t approach it aggressively. something that could work to is to approach with ur number on some paper and say hi idk if you’re single but i thought you were cute and if you are here’s my number and if you aren’t then here’s a piece of scratch paper

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It’s not weird it just matters how you go about it like don’t make it alarming or weird to the girl when you ask her for her number

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No it’s not weird as a girl

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I wouldnt give my number to anyone without at least a conversation

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not weird at all!! you can always ask for her name first, say hi

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