Realistically though you should want to better yourself for you. One thing I believe is very important for men and women is to make sure we can be successful on our own before finding partners.

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It’s bad. What happens if she breaks up with you?? Are you just gonna revert to your old ways? You need to be better for yourself.

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Nope. Being motivated to do things in pursuit of women is a fundamentally healthy male behavior. Go, better yourself, earn the respect of a woman you'd like to have sex with, have great sex! Best of luck!

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