Ask Women on Yik Yak | I think my gf is abusive to me, and I’m not coming to terms with it. She raises her voice, throws things, and genuinely can make me feel uncomfortable if she gets upset, because it comes at me a lot and then it seems like everything is fine. Im scared

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I think my gf is abusive to me, and I’m not coming to terms with it. She raises her voice, throws things, and genuinely can make me feel uncomfortable if she gets upset, because it comes at me a lot and then it seems like everything is fine. Im scared

Anonymous 3w

You need to leave asap

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Anonymous 3w

Are you in a safe place? Like if you two live together can you get out? Do you think you can safely leave the relationship or do you think she’ll try something?

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Anonymous 3w

that is def within the parameters of intimate partner violence, and not okay. have you ever called her out or explained in depth how her actions are making you feel? she needs to know how unacceptable her behavior is. you are better off without her

Anonymous 3w

I just had an incident where she was tossing plastic bottles in the recycling bin and picked up her normal one and went to pretend like she was throwing at me and when I flinched and ducked my face hit the chair and I just cut my lip. And now I’m “trying to be Doctor ___” and “being an ass” in her words because I don’t want to be touched right now

Anonymous 3w

nobody deserves to deal with that kind of crap, this isn’t working with her

Anonymous 3w

You need to get out

Anonymous 3w

My gf does this 😂, I think it’s funny when she throws stuff

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strawberry_hair 3w

We’re on the same college campus, she transferred here. We’ve been together for two years now, but this is the closest we have been to “living with each other” where we spend most of our time out of class with eachother in my single dorm. Idk if she would try something physically but I know she would be at my window or door trying to know what’s going on

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OP 3w

Okay so I know a lot of campus’ have counselors. I would also call the campus hotline and tell them what’s going on, and maybe even some friends you can trust. It sounds like she is abusive and so you need to get yourself out of that situation. You won’t deserve that.