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How can I tell my gf about my kink? I’m so worried it will gross her out
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Anonymous 3w

Alright *cracks knuckles* so baseline questions: 1. Have you have having sex for long? 2. Have you done anything kinky before? (If yes, rate from 1-10 how extreme 1 being vanilla with maybe handcuffs and 10 being actively in a BDSM club) 3. What kink is it and is it something that would harm her (like cnc, puking, whipping, etc)?

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Anonymous 3w

what is it

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Anonymous 3w

and how long have you been seeing each other?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Ff, I feel like it’s been given such a stigma from the creeps like Dan Schneider and Tarantino

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

About 4 months

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 3w

1. Not really, a few weeks 2. Maybe? I’d say yes at about a 3 3. Foot kink. I’d say not harmful, just has a negative stereotype to it thanks to creeps.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Ahhh okay! That’s nothing weird at all honestly. Maybe just ask her what are her “nos” “maybes” and “yess” for kink/sex (like read down a list of different kink things for you both to answer) and that way you can find any matching yeses and talk about any maybes and anything that one of you has a no on won’t need to be discussed

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 3w

Thank you! That sounds like good advice! I appreciate it. I think I’m just overly worried because I had an ex that was very put off by it, and went around publically mocking me for it, so I’ve just avoided telling new partners, but this relationship feels different, and I wanna be open with them. So thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m sorry that an ex did that, that’s super out of line. I hope it all goes well!

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 3w

It went well :) thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m so glad!!!!!

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