
Alright *cracks knuckles* so baseline questions: 1. Have you have having sex for long? 2. Have you done anything kinky before? (If yes, rate from 1-10 how extreme 1 being vanilla with maybe handcuffs and 10 being actively in a BDSM club) 3. What kink is it and is it something that would harm her (like cnc, puking, whipping, etc)?
Ahhh okay! That’s nothing weird at all honestly. Maybe just ask her what are her “nos” “maybes” and “yess” for kink/sex (like read down a list of different kink things for you both to answer) and that way you can find any matching yeses and talk about any maybes and anything that one of you has a no on won’t need to be discussed
Thank you! That sounds like good advice! I appreciate it. I think I’m just overly worried because I had an ex that was very put off by it, and went around publically mocking me for it, so I’ve just avoided telling new partners, but this relationship feels different, and I wanna be open with them. So thank you!