In all honesty I have been reading that post about your bf (?) and he's giving you no energy in return and just going with the flow. I think the fact that you have made all the plans and communicated to him about them while he isn't as prompt with his replies might be concerning
I mean, he is definitely the nervous reserved type of guy and honestly I usually wait for my friends too. Make the plans because you know I don’t wanna be an annoying burden. But that doesn’t mean I don’t like them I mean, sometimes I’ll ask them to do things but they 100% 90% of the time are the ones who asked me to do something but I say yes most of the time.
Aqua this is beyond nervous. It seems like you two have been talking too long for him to still be "nervous". Stop making excuses for him because you like him and see the reality of this situation. How will you know he's truly interested if he has yet to reciprocate what you do for him