Ask Women on Yik Yak | ngl never rlly got much female attention before this semester but now im going on a bunch of dates w diff women and i feel kinda conflicted or bad cause im not just going out w 1 person, is this normal?

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Ask Women 19h

ngl never rlly got much female attention before this semester but now im going on a bunch of dates w diff women and i feel kinda conflicted or bad cause im not just going out w 1 person, is this normal?

Anonymous 18h

I mean do you want a long term relationship? If so, maybe lighten up on going on so many dates with different people, and try to focus on finding a person you wanna invest more time/energy. But if you just wanna have fun dates, and aren’t really looking for anything, and everyone is aware of that, then don’t feel guilty. You’re just having fun, so you don’t need to treat it so seriously. Whatever you’re feeling is valid, just determine why you feel that guilt, and that can help you address it.

Anonymous 18h

Girls do that all the time. As long as you’re not deceiving anyone it’s fine

Anonymous 19h

if you feel conflicted or bad, why not just not do that?

Anonymous 17h

You’re young and figuring out what you like. Don’t force yourself to settle before you’re ready

Anonymous

#1 19h

fair but i js don’t wanna overly focus on 1 person js for it to not work out and burn bridges

Anonymous

OP 18h

that's the trade off tbf

Anonymous

#3 13h

i see, thank you