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I tell my gf everyday that I do love her but I just am not sure about the future with her and it is unpredictable and I can’t give her that reassurance. Now she’s insecure and we fight when she drinks. What do I do?
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Anonymous 3d

Leave bro you don’t deserve her

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Anonymous 3d

How long have yall been dating? I understand that you dont want to make promises, and early on its definitely harder to picture a life with someone.

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Anonymous 3d

Why’re you dating her if you’re unsure about a future with her? That’s just stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Wait what? How is this my fault?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Almost a year

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Are you dating to marry dude?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

Well she’s my first real gf and I never looked at relationships that way honestly. I’m more focused on baseball right now and we just happened to meet but now we’re going long distance. She would move to me in May but that’s what I’m saying idk if I’m sure about her.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Id consider what youre looking for. Distance is hard and going into it with problems is just going to drain both of you. I dont blame you for not knowing, emotions are complicated, especially in your first relationship. Id definitely put thought into what you want and what you're willing to do before planning to move in with a partner. Best of luck dude!

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