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So my uncle tried spanking me and I dunno know how to feel? he likes to mess with me by laying on me (not like his full body just like the upper half of him) cause he’s a pretty big dude but this time he tried spanking me but just hit my thigh two times
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Anonymous 1w

If this somehow wasn’t already obvious, that’s a weird af family dynamic, sorry. You should probably tell him not to do that. I understand being close and that’s great, but you should firmly draw a line in the sand. You can be friendly about that so long as it works.

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Anonymous 1w

WHAT THE FUCK

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Anonymous 1w

Fuck yeah he’s a weirdo.

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Anonymous 1w

I’m 19F btw and the reason why he tried spanking me was cause I called him fat but we’ve always teased each other like that but this is the first time he has ever put his hands on me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

It made me feel uncomfortable but I dunno I just can’t imagine my uncle acting weird towards me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Strange thing to be doing with a young female family member. If you think your family would be supportive you could ask them to relay your feelings, or tell him yourself, but if it's a boundary you want to set you have to advocate for yourself in some way. It doesn't have to be some big accusation, just a boundary you need set.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I guess I’m just nervous because I don’t want him to think that I see him as some weirdo but i do feel like it was definitely a boundary he crossed when he did that

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