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I asked a girl out over a year ago but she said no and we are best friends for over 2 years, and she thinks I don’t feel that way anymore. I try to flirt every now and then because I still feel strongly for her but I’m not sure how she’ll take it. Advice?
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Anonymous 5w

Be straightforward that you want to date her, but realize she may not feel that way and your friendship may be “ruined” depends with how she responds

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Also, I always make sure she knows I’m always here for her and I know she knows it. She never hides anything and she basically tells me everything. I just don’t know if she knows how I truly feel but doesn’t admit seeing it. And I’ve changed since I’ve asked her out the first time, lost a ton of weight (105+ lbs) and I and emotionally and mentally better. And very independent. I want to tell her but I don’t want to risk what we have not for what probably would never be.

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