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-6 upvote, 35 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "How true is this?"
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Anonymous 5w

Not true at all lmfao

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Anonymous 5w

Emotional intelligence is important and so is healing but 6 figures and a gym body is not important

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Anonymous 5w

The only thing that’s important on here is have emotional intelligence and not put his childhood trauma on me. That’s it.

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Anonymous 5w

A good man will treat you the same as an average woman.

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Anonymous 5w

Emotional intelligence is the only thing that I know I’d need. I expect them to be healed enough to maintain an intimate relationship/communicate, but I don’t expect anyone to be fully healed from their trauma.Some people go through unimaginable things that I believe is unfair to expect someone to heal from. You can get better of course,but some things just stay with you and that’s not their fault. It shouldn’t limit them and their ability to have a healthy,loving relationship unless they let it

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Anonymous 5w

Literally just need emotional intelligence and shared morals & life goals. For wants: funny, good work ethic, and least mildly attractive to me (I find most people attractive so this one hardly makes the list). For the most ridiculous high standards for an imaginary partner: billionaire who is super attractive and madly in love with me and can read my mind so I never have to explain my feelings ever again

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Rlly?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yes really

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Do you‘d date someone who‘s fat?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Or makes less than u?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

*so

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah honestly it doesn’t matter to me as long as he’s a good person. He can be fat, skinny, fit, whatever it is and honestly I don’t care how much he makes as long as he’s trying. It doesn’t have to be the best paying job but it’s the initiative and drive to succeed that’s attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

So you‘d like literally any guy who‘s a good person?

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 5w

So you’d like literally any guy who’s emotionally intelligent and not outting childhood trauma on u?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

*putting

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I mean not any guy, but of those qualifications you mentioned yeah those two are the only ones that matter. I have other expectations but I couldn’t care less if he makes 6 figures or has a 6 pack. Most women don’t care.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 5w

Would it help tho? All else being equal

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

What?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

U need emotional intelligence in a guy, but what do u want in a guy?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Uh I guess so? Financial stability is always nice but it’s not like I won’t be working. Really what I need is someone who’s not a super religious guy and he has to be a liberal and want kids.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

What I want is unrealistic for men to achieve, so idk anymore. A guy has never even been what I needed and he has to be that first before he can be what I want.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 5w

Ok. I‘m just trying to figure out who u decide a guy is someone u want to date

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

What do u want? Lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

*how I can‘t type tn 🤦‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah this is what I use to determine if it’s worth dating or not. If we don’t have the same goals or expectations in life why should I even bother to try and date?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Idk I just wanted to be treated like a human being. All the “wants” I have are needs. I don’t have the privilege of being picky and even if I did, I wouldn’t know.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

Gosh. That‘s sad. Not even treated like a human being?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

That’s a need not a want. I can find that. I’m talking about that I don’t have the privilege of having preferences.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

It seems to me like that should easy tho 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

It’s not when you’re an asexual woman with cptsd. I used to be a hopeless romantic but I’ve given up on that fantasy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

Oh wow. Yikes. I‘m sorry. I can see how that would be challenging. I hope u find someone who is good for u.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I appreciate that but I’m not sure that that someone exists. I’m only romantically attracted to men and I know how they are..

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

I’ve talked to someone like u before, and I told her it didn’t matter to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

That’s nice to know, but it’s still incredibly rare till the point I’m just gonna let a miracle happen. If it doesn’t happen then it just doesn’t happen.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

If I liked her enough, it wouldn’t matter.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

That’s fair

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 5w

My bf more than meets my needs and wants

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