Ask Women on Yik Yak | NEED ADVICE: my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday bc she said she needs to figure herself out mentally and she can’t live to my expectations. all i asked was she text me and now that we’re broken up she actually does. wtf is going on?

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NEED ADVICE: my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday bc she said she needs to figure herself out mentally and she can’t live to my expectations. all i asked was she text me and now that we’re broken up she actually does. wtf is going on?

Anonymous 15h

also we broke up with the intention that we will probably get back together once she is in a better mental state

Anonymous 15h

it might be the pressure of it that’s impacting her. but also i would ask if another person might be in the picture too. i know for me personally, relationships can feel suffocating when im not doing so hot emotionally, because you want to take care of yourself and them and i would say have as open of conversation whats happening. if you trust her enough, believe her words

Anonymous 15h

Would you be able to call her instead more often?

Anonymous

OP 15h

She may be trying to be better then. I don’t know the situation exactly so I don’t know for sure

Anonymous

#1 15h

all last week she was taking space for herself and not texting me much and i told her all i needed was communication but she said that was too much but now she’s actually doing it…but it took her breaking up with me to do it…? so i don’t understand

Anonymous

#3 15h

i have asked her and she said no. she also said while we’re broken up she doesn’t wanna talk to anyone else

Anonymous

#2 14h

we’re broken up now so idk if that’s the vibe ngl