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Is this actually good advice?
9 upvotes, 26 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "Is this actually good advice?"
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Anonymous 23h

I think it would be better to give a genuine compliment instead of that’s someone I’d like to know and ask for their number and then you reach out. And then you can tell them to have a good night (preferably regardless of if they reject or not )

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Anonymous 17h

I think it’s pretty good advice. It removes a lot of the creepiness, the social pressure, the possibility of retaliation, etc etc. not everyone’s gonna like it, but those that don’t would probably hate being approached to suddenly anyway, so you’re not really losing anything

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Anonymous 15h

I’d prefer it

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Anonymous 18h

like 2 said i think a genuine compliment (non sexual) might be better, but this is a way better way to approach someone while giving them the choice to reach out or not. op ur weird for not asking this question in good faith tho

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Anonymous 14h

This would be more likely to work on me than trying to stand me in a corner and force my phone number. Then, if he seems okay, I’d reach out on a burner number to see how it goes and then my actual number.

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Anonymous 7h

Yes. The part about giving her your number instead of asking for hers is VERY good advice. It removes the stress of being contacted and having to think about your safety.

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Anonymous 7h

That actually sounds really good. I feel bad making people respond sometimes.

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Anonymous 1d

They throwing that shit straight into the garbage Brody

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1d

Yeah that’s what I was thinking but I wanted to see if they’d pretend it would work on them

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15h

At least I would have to sneak out the back or or call a friend to come over yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7h

Yeah, sad that it’s just another entitled incel who’s been brainwashed into thinking that his lack of basic decency is not what’s repelling women like the plague. They blame height, money, and other shallow stuff no one cares about because they’re too chicken to do actual reflection.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

You’re a chicken. You’re too scared to self reflect, and it’s much easier to blame women for not wanting to date the entitled mess that is you. Too scared of empathy. Too scared to be wrong. Too scared of who you are. Don’t be a 🐔. Go to therapy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7h

I agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7h

Woah, touched a nerve there

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6h

You don’t even know me lol, those are crazy things to assume about a person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6h

Deny it all you want, deep down you can still feel it. Act all surprised and indignant. Tell yourself you’re not really like this. Convince yourself that everyone can’t see right through you if you want, but that won’t change reality. Your behavior is filled with clues, and it is so blatantly obvious to most of us that many don’t even bother talking to you because they think you’re hopeless. Will you prove them wrong, or chicken out again?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5h

Yeah honestly I’d prefer if people like you didn’t “bother talking to” me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4h

I was initially asking in good faith, actually, but in retrospect beestboy is probably right.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4h

Plus I just can’t imagine it’s very attractive when a guy apologizes repeatedly for the inconvenience of his presence, especially as a first impression lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4h

You don’t like reality checks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4h

Your comments demonstrate a twisted value system. One that prioritizes selfish entitlement over interpersonal safety. You don’t care that women like the idea of not being pressured for their number because you don’t like it when they have the option to choose not to contact you. Because you feel entitled to women.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4h

You’re really making it obvious why you keep getting turned down. No one likes an entitled man who doesn’t self reflect or care about others.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4h

Yeah man I’m sure people are actually super into my 250+ pound body covered in hair and the only reason I haven’t had my first kiss is because I’m unknowingly a despicable and vile person who feels entitled to sex or something (even though I have cherished friendships with the women in my life and I’m basically asexual)

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4h

The reason I’m questioning whether it’s really good advice is not that I don’t care about womens’ comfort, it’s that advice like that hasn’t really been super effective in my *personal experience*

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4h

I mean I look like if jesus was a defensive lineman lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4h

I don’t like people who are mean to strangers

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