Ask Women on Yik Yak | Girls, am I undateable as a 5’4 man? I’m 21, never had a gf. Am afraid of approaching women because of multiple past experiences where I have been ridiculed by them for even trying. Never had a girl approach me. Im lonely ngl.

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Girls, am I undateable as a 5’4 man? I’m 21, never had a gf. Am afraid of approaching women because of multiple past experiences where I have been ridiculed by them for even trying. Never had a girl approach me. Im lonely ngl.

Anonymous 4w

do you think most men have women approach them? especially in our antisocial, technology led reality? yes 5’4 is below average height for an american man but literally walk into any costco in america and see what couples actually look like (mismatched heights, weights, etc). stop letting the internet give you a doomer mentality

Anonymous 4w

I wouldn’t say your height makes you un-dateable. You just need to approach women when you’re ready and be confident. Just don’t be a creep/dick lol good luck!

Anonymous 4w

There’s nothing wrong with you. It’s just not your time but I promise it will happen. If it makes you feel better I’ve never had someone come up to me or say that I was pretty ever.

Anonymous

#1 4w

as for approaching girls, yes it will help to be realistic, if you are below average in looks than probably don’t rank looks first in what you’re searching for in a partner but also don’t “settle” for an average girl because that isn’t fair to her either

Anonymous 4w

my ex was brown and asian, thinking that precludes you from dating is feeding into the doomer stuff

Anonymous

#1 4w

I don’t think it’s fair to say my mentality is bad when I’m just acknowledging the reality I live in.

Anonymous

OP 4w

move to an area with a higher asian population but you can’t make blanket statements like this for the whole country and paint your entire race as lame

Anonymous

#1 4w

I’ve had a woman approach me, it caught me off-guard though lol