critically looked at his sexuality & gender in order to figure out whether he’s actually cishet or if he just feels that way due to society & how he grew up. he is actually cishet lol but i was impressed that a straight, white, cis man rly did a deep dive into his own identity to get a better understanding of it
held himself to a higher standard of behavior, never backing down from his morals meaning even if things would impact him negatively or there would be negative consequences he'd own his mistakes & take them on the chin, working to be better (yes im talking abt my partner i adore & admire him in so many ways & this is just one of them😭)