
And then when you see boundaries about what you’re willing to listen to or support you’re a bad friend. I’ve made the executive decision as the single friend to stop giving people (esp women in relationships or situationships/hookups) advice. It’s too much energy, they never really listen to your problems or care either, and they never change their behavior so it’s not worth the headache for me.
“Girls girl” is supposed to mean you decenter men and are able to look past how patriarchy conditions us to pit ourselves against one another. It doesn’t mean “be a people pleasing robot”. It’s just being an active feminist but under a more digestible tik-toky term for straight women lmao