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almost 2 years ago, my ex cheated on me with a girl who knew about me the whole time who reassured me multiple times that nothing was going on, while secretly ft him while naked and helping him cheat. is it worth confronting after all this time?
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Anonymous 1w

If it’s still bothering u then yes confront her, might help u fully heal and move on

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Anonymous 1w

for reference, I never told her how bad it hurt me, and I even told her I forgave her. i’m in a new amazing relationship now and have moved on, but I still feel anger towards her and i don’t think she fully gets how awful what she did was

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Anonymous 1w

Yes, I don’t see it coming back to hurt you in any way, why not as long as you’re respectful about it.

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Anonymous 1w

do not listen to what everyone else is saying no. do not confront her. she doesnt care and u bringing it up 2 yrs later means she extra doesnt care. u arent doing this for closure u just want her to know how u feel but i think she knows what she did was wrong— let me reiterate she just doesnt care. thats how lots of home wreckers r😭 2 years later is just a crazy point to reach out to a stranger now and bring it up, it also comes off as u still not having moved on.

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Anonymous 1w

I’m sorry this happened to you. I advise you to create some distance between the two of you. There is no reason to mingle with someone you’re only pretending to like & it’s fine not to like her. There’s no expiration date on grieving. Talk to her at your discretion, but she already told you who she is. I used to be in the military & I’m older than most students. I’ve seen a lot of these situations, and I want to tell you that, even though it’s heavy, it gets lighter as time passes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

has it been too long though?

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