
do not listen to what everyone else is saying no. do not confront her. she doesnt care and u bringing it up 2 yrs later means she extra doesnt care. u arent doing this for closure u just want her to know how u feel but i think she knows what she did was wrong— let me reiterate she just doesnt care. thats how lots of home wreckers r😭 2 years later is just a crazy point to reach out to a stranger now and bring it up, it also comes off as u still not having moved on.
I’m sorry this happened to you. I advise you to create some distance between the two of you. There is no reason to mingle with someone you’re only pretending to like & it’s fine not to like her. There’s no expiration date on grieving. Talk to her at your discretion, but she already told you who she is. I used to be in the military & I’m older than most students. I’ve seen a lot of these situations, and I want to tell you that, even though it’s heavy, it gets lighter as time passes.