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How to stop hating someone that I really have no reason to hate cause it’s not a good reason?
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Anonymous 4d

Well r u gonna drop the reason 🫣

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Anonymous 4d

I don’t have an answer but wouldn’t it be easier to just not interact with her? I mean that way you don’t even need to not hate her if it doesn’t have to affect your life. Is she a coworker or relative, someone you can’t avoid?

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Anonymous 4d

Pray about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

It’s my ex’s new partner 🙃

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Ah. Well it’s understandable to feel jealous or resentful in that scenario. Most people do even if they don’t admit to it. You are allowed to feel irritated or resentful or someone while acknowledging u don’t hate them as a person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Ig I don’t hate who they are, I hate that I’m not them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Sounds more like jealousy than hatred, which I think is a pretty natural response to when your ex starts dating someone new

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

I have many times

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Maybe a Pro Cons list too, like is it worth not liking them. Distraction helps as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

I hate that I feel this way cause they seem happy and doing well but I just wish I could still be with them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

It’s a hard feeling to have but know you’re not alone in it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

It’s just hard knowing that I don’t get to be by their side

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

It’s not worth it, but I just wish it was me and not them

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

I’ve never met this person, I just know they’re with my ex

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