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This whole post and comment section is making me feel crazy. Am I too woke or is this whole thing inherently patriarchal?

whorehome

I love that this is what made him not want to talk anymore 💀
1219 upvotes, 131 comments. Yik Yak image post by whorehome in serve cunt or die. "I love that this is what made him not want to talk anymore 💀"
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Anonymous 20h

Number 4 had some good points but lost too many people in trying to be right and still falls into blaming women. The group is serve cunt or die, the general attitude is not meant to serve as a space for reflection on how the patriarchy puts men on a pedestal and cripples women.

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Anonymous 20h

If someone (any gender) asks SOMEONE ELSE out then that SOMEONE should be making the plans🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 20h

The wording is weird. I think if you want to hang out, no matter the gender, then you suggest something to do. Sometimes I make plans for the group because there is something I want to do, other times it’s someone else. “Being a man” has nothing to do with it

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Anonymous 20h

All the men in the comments getting pissy like men don’t just randomly ask women to “send pics” when u haven’t even met yet😭😭 women we are the prize, if a man wants u, he will make it known! Little boys like this can go back to the streets

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Anonymous 20h

Yeah kinda

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Anonymous 20h

She did the right thing. I hate a man that doesn’t take the lead. Some women prefer traditional gender roles and that’s okay

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Anonymous 20h

No. If someone asks someone out and wants to meet them that bad make a plan to actually meet them. You’re wasting their time doing that. You’re the one wanting their attention they were fine by themselves more than likely idc what gender it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

On the other hand “be a man” just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. “Show some effort instead of being a lazy scrub” would have been a good set up for overlaying the song “scrub”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

So if it’s the man that did it then yeah, man up and ask the poor girl out on a date that’s NOT your apartment may I add. Too many putting the most effort on the person being asked out instead of doing your own part nowadays. You don’t even have to pick up other ppl just find a common place to meet

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

Definitely agree about 4. He was being an asshole

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Anonymous replying to -> whorehome 19h

God forbid someone ask when someone’s free, additionally a majority of the comments are criticizing patriarchy but the stance they are taking on this is upholding it

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19h

They asked “when are we going to meet”. That’s not asking when they’d be free. Idc if she asked him out it would be the same thing. That’s not how you ask someone on a date bc hell if I know when we’re meeting you didn’t initiate anything. I hate when ppl don’t take a lead but then try to point fingers. That’s lack of effort and opportunity. You can ask when she’s free to give yourself ideas of how to plan it but you didn’t plan anything to begin with

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