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Honest question. As a guy who’s gf is quiet and isn’t emotive or talks about emotions much, how do I get her to open up? What can I do or say that will make her tell me what she’s feeling?
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Anonymous 12h

There’s really nothing you can do. Just remain supportive and love her. If she wants to open up to you, she will. If she doesn’t, that’s okay too

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Anonymous 10h

you shouldn't go into relationships hoping someone changes. accept them for who they are, or this may not be an emotionally fulfilling relationship for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

I love her for who she is, but I can’t tell how she’s feeling and she never tells me, that’s fairly standard in any relationship I feel

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

i hate to break it to you but its NOT normal to not be able to gauge ur partners emotions? its not normal to not communicate those things. it looks like yall dont have good communication. are either of you in therapy?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Wait does she just never communicate how she feels?

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