as a girlie, i was unfortunately exposed to a lot of porn when i was around 8. its literally been a lifelong struggle trying to rewire my brain to be normal. that shit destroyed my childhood. i never even really liked it, but i couldn’t stop thinking about it. i mourn for my girlhood constantly

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If u scroll down a few I just posted this to try to get some more female attention on it tbh bc the incels are downvoting all my comments and it makes me so frustrated #4 is obviously a porn addict the way he’s defending it

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Same:/ I could never a date a guy that watches it tbh. As someone with sexual trauma, those guys seriously scare me. Idk what type it is- I just could never feel comfortable with them.

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You’re not out of place everyone else is. It’s a normalized addiction that should be stopped.

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Me three

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10000% especially when they’re still developing children which porn industries specifically attempt to target to get them hooked early. porn is one of the biggest dealbreakers for me

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i'm a guy fighting porn addiction and i've had to tell my girlfriend about it for the sake of accountability and honesty. she weirdly doesn't mind it but it fucks with me bc it ruined my perception of relationships 😭

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as someone who discovered porn at an early age I think like 8 or 9, my relationship with it at first was horrible and I always felt disgusted by it and how I liked to watch it and I would get horrible guilt after watching it. nowadays I don’t feel as horrible about it but I don’t watch it much anymore because my boyfriend thinks it’s bad for relationships, which I agree with. it’s like a drug, if you watch it too much you can get addicted

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Can someone actually explain to me how porn is addictive? Like is it different than having a sex addiction? I’m ignorant since I’ve only watched porn a few times and I’ve never understood the appeal really.

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I think there are women that watch porn to it’s not just men

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I absolutely hate the porn industry and how it impacts people, especially young men/boys, and even the actors who are often mistreated and lured into the work. I will say, I generally don’t say I hate porn itself, like, as a concept, bc I do think it can theoretically be done in a safe, ethical manner, and engaging in porn occasionally, enjoying it from time to time, wouldn’t be bad. It’s just that we currently don’t have an ethical and safe system that allows for that kind of ethical engagement

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full agree

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For me, I go on and off of porn, but for my the things I’ve been more into are… uhhh different… whilst I do not know what is expected since I’m a freshman and never had sex before I’ve always been more interested in being a bottom and not sure if that’s normal with what I’ve seen and heard… or if that’s better or not.

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BLU GI GI

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based 🥀💔

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