Ask Women on Yik Yak | What to do when your bf is constantly tearing you down behind jokes? Then acts like I’m overreacting for getting hurt. Most of his jokes include making fun of me, my body or just straight up taking jabs at me. Last hangout he made a joke that I didn’t 1/2

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What to do when your bf is constantly tearing you down behind jokes? Then acts like I’m overreacting for getting hurt. Most of his jokes include making fun of me, my body or just straight up taking jabs at me. Last hangout he made a joke that I didn’t 1/2

Anonymous 20h

break up with him. you should never feel like your partner is bullying you.

Anonymous 20h

Doesn't sound like it's worth trying to fix things. Cause why continue to be around someone who constantly tears you down?

Anonymous 19h

Stop talking to him

Anonymous 18h

Sorry hun not worth it. He does not like you and is trying to play it off. You’re worth more than you think.

Anonymous 20h

Deserve him then followed up with a joke later that day that he was settling. I’ve literally questioned his attraction towards me because of his “jokes” so the settling joke really made me insecure. To clarify, I already broke up with him due to this but we’re still in contact. Just need advice on whether it’s worth it to fix things or get away from him.

Anonymous

#1 20h

I guess he’s very loving & supportive too so it just really confuses me when he does that. Just wondering if anyone thinks I’m overreacting by breaking up.

Anonymous

#2 20h

oh i just saw your follow up comment. if you broke up with him for bullying you, stop talking to him...

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Anonymous

OP 18h

Absolutely not over reacting. No one should be putting down the person they love like that- or at all.

Anonymous

OP 14h

get away from him. if he’s making those jokes in front of you who knows what he says when you’re not around. your partner should cherish and respect you, not embarrass and demean you like that.