Anonymous #1 2w

So I have to get rejected over and over again? That’s rough

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Anonymous OP 2w

You have to be open to the possibility of rejection. To have a partner means you have to learn how to be vulnerable. That’s not necessarily always gonna happen, the rejection, but if you prepare yourself mentally I think it’s easier to be willing to take risks Yik

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Anonymous #1 2w

At least that’s how I told my fiancé I liked him

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Anonymous #1 2w

So either be vulnerable or stay single essentially? I don’t like being vulnerable

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Anonymous OP 2w

That’s something you have to work on. How are you going to handle a relationship where you have to compromise if you can’t be vulnerable and voice your concerns? If you want something serious then you’ll have to eventually get there. I feel you, it’s tough but you can do it!

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Anonymous #1 2w

When I first started dating I was very passive aggressive and wouldn’t voice what I actually needed. Defensiveness doesn’t work when you want emotional intimacy with someone

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Anonymous #1 2w

Thanksssss. I have a hard time showing intimacy though

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Anonymous OP 2w

I think we all do but it’s something learned. Being a people pleaser or someone who is scared to rock the boat does not get you far in life

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Anonymous #1 2w

I literally have a hard time showing emotions

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