Ask Women on Yik Yak | Why the fuck are so many straight women in relationships with disgusting, selfish, ugly, misogynistic man-children who put zero effort into their appearance while expecting the woman to look like a model and expect their gf/wife to be a surrogate mommy?

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Why the fuck are so many straight women in relationships with disgusting, selfish, ugly, misogynistic man-children who put zero effort into their appearance while expecting the woman to look like a model and expect their gf/wife to be a surrogate mommy?

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Anonymous 6d

That’s why we stay single until we find men that aren’t like that lol

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Anonymous 6d

I’m not disgusting and I put in effort to my appearance im just ugly

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Anonymous 6d

Because their dad was that zero effort man so they don’t know any better

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Anonymous 6d

guilty

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Anonymous 6d

Because some of us don’t have to put in any effort and since they like our personalities so much there isn’t anything else we need to do. Good dih and toxic energy to keep her excited and on her feet.

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Anonymous 6d

You good?

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Anonymous 4d

You sound rlly bitter. Are u okay? Why does this bother you so much? I agree I hate to see it too but u sound rlly mad what triggered this?

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Anonymous 6d

Usually, if a woman likes that kind of man, she’s probably not that much of a prize herself so I just figure they deserve each other and give it no more of my thought

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Anonymous 6d

Bait

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Anonymous 6d

These types of women are why I say that Incels don’t exist. You can be the most disgusting, selfish, ugliest, misogynistic loser and still pull women.

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Anonymous 6d

every woman i have ever talked to has complimented the ugliest woman i have ever seen, and told her that she is beautiful. I have no doubt that is what you are doing, calling ugly fat bitches beautiful and average men ugly, because all the media you consume tells you to do so. you are a original-thoughtless chud gentile

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Anonymous 5d

Some people stay with low-effort, selfish partners because they perceive them as safe or because they fear being alone.

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Anonymous 5d

Oh! So from my past relationship I can say it’s because I still cared about the guy as a friend, but couldn’t see them as romantic partner anymore. He wasn’t the same guy he was when I first met him in high-school. Or rather he never grew up and as life threw challenges it was easier for him to point fingers at systems and his other friends than take accountability.

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Anonymous 6d

wow this whole thread (post and comments) has so much loser energy it's hard to handle

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Anonymous 5d

People sometimes stay in relationships because of misplaced loyalty, believing they can fix the partner or, over time, falling for the sunk cost fallacy where they feel they have invested too much to leave.

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Anonymous 5d

Because the disappointment of what we know feels like more security than the loneliness of what we might not find.

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Anonymous 6d

Lesbians have an over 70% divorce rate and an over 70% domestic violence. Yall literally end up with women that intentionally dress like they are men and engage in toxic “male” traits.

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Anonymous 6d

All the while these straight women act like everything is okay and defend their man with, “Oh he’s a good man, our relationship is fine.” Like girl not only do you look like a Porsche parked next to a shit-stained rundown old Toyota Corolla, he’s never once tried to make you cum and always just flops on top of you for two minutes before rolling over to snore real loud, he’s never eaten a vegetable, doesn’t wipe his ass coz he thinks that’s “gay” and never helps with the housework or childcare.

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Anonymous

OP 6d

As a lesbian I feel so bad for straight women and the shit y’all put up with coz the bar for men is on the bottom floor of Hell.

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Anonymous

#1 6d

Not bait, this is literally every third hetero relationship I see.

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Anonymous

OP 6d

Like I said bait. If you're gonna sit here getting worked up over something you can't control with a lot of assumptions thats on you. But love is love is it not? Its not your place to tell people who they can and can't love

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Anonymous

#4 6d

The elusive straight woman with self-respect and standards.

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Anonymous

OP 6d

I was with you than you lost me, you're acting like lesbians can't be in shitty relationships too. This isn't a sexual orientation issue this is an issue between narcissistic evil people and insecure low confidence people

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Anonymous

OP 6d

And i say this quite literally after the fact that I just helped my lesbian friend out of a dv situation with her ex gf

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Anonymous

#6 6d

Honestly if you were to ask the toxic men why they like us that’s 100% what they’d say. “She’s cool I like her vibe”. When all they bring to us is the audacity and dih thinking it makes up for their poor behavior

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Anonymous

#4 6d

And the crazy part is that it does, the nice guy who didn’t hit and decided to be patient with you will never get that second chance, with us on the other hand it aint over until we decide it is. Dihmatized is the correct word lol. Yall be getting stuck up on it worse sometimes

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Anonymous

#10 6d

Idk about the divorce stuff but that domestic violence stat has been debunked, the study included past relationships with men in that count.

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Anonymous

OP 6d

Name 2 examples of

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Anonymous

#6 6d

I mean I don’t but dih doesn’t excuse being an asshole

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Anonymous

#4 6d

We don’t need an excuse to be one that’s just the way we are and y’all will put up with it until were through with you.

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Anonymous

#6 6d

Who is we? You really think your dick game is enough to get women to stay and that’s bc you go after vulnerable women who can’t defend themselves with self respect bc they haven’t learned it. Says a lot about you than the women bc you know you aren’t capable of pulling the self respecting women that you need to go for women with child like mentalities and lovesick tendencies

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Anonymous

OP 6d

Girl I can’t lie it’s a problem but it is not every hetero relationship

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Anonymous 6d

Women can have high standards it’s the audacity of men like you that think you can’t have standards for yourself or force these women to lower it bc you have no morals. You can’t even fathom being a good guy just a guy with a dick. You know women won’t hit unless you make them lower it

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Anonymous

#4 6d

We don’t force anyone to choose us? As a grown woman you should be able to spot and know when bs is in your face. Blame yourself for falling back on the same toxic guy not us. Everything but accountability, literally make your own decisions. I said “if some of yall” not all lol, if a girl lets me hit and disrespect her then ik she doesn’t have much self respect.

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Anonymous

#4 6d

This is exactly why the stigma of girls falling for the bad boy who just cracks her is such a popular idea cause it literally happens. You choose us for what seems to be only superficial or sexual reasons, and then get surprised and hurt that we don’t want anything serious but always run back.

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Anonymous

#6 6d

Yeah I don’t do that lol. But it’s pretty common shitty men have acted nice to get pussy then treat the girls like shit after the relationship bc it’s harder to get out of toxic relationships than just a toxic hookup

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Anonymous

#4 6d

Im starting to wonder how realistic that truly is, like obviously those guys exist but from the stories i hear girls tell they just let dudes hit with 0 effort and get suprised they leave

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Anonymous

#14 6d

This too, they will see a walking teletubie and call her beautiful like if they were a man they would give her a chance

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Anonymous

#6 6d

It is realistic unless you’re the dumbass causing it you’ll be oblivious to things

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Anonymous

#4 6d

Says you. There has to be a logical reason for why their doing villain shi, like if I was gonna treat a girl like a joke I need proof to tell me that I shouldt take her seriously. I think it’s just girls not being smart in interactions and then just getting surprised guys leave

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Anonymous

#6 6d

No that’s more of you and the men that do it seeking vulnerability bc you’re a senseless asshole. Even grown adults that have matured still have been treated shitty by partners with and without their standards being raised

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Anonymous

#6 6d

You can’t even take yourself seriously if you take women as a joke bfr

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Anonymous

#9 6d

post ain't about you bud

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Anonymous

#5 6d

While anyone can be shitty regardless of gender or sexual orientation, there is a legitimate discrepancy in emotional and domestic labor within straight relationships due to systemic issues such as patriarchy and misogyny. Men are systemically expected to be catered to and women are systemically expected to put men before themselves. Misogyny also causes men to avoid domestic labor, emotional maturity, and even basic hygiene because it’s seen as “gay/not manly” and many men grow up being coddled

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Anonymous

OP 6d

Don’t single out straight women for having poor judgement, the divorce rates and domestic violence rates for lesbian couples are both higher than heterosexual or gay male relationships. I’m not saying this as a way to put lesbians down, but you can’t just generalize and crap over other people’s relationships like that.

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Anonymous

#5 6d

And yes there are plenty of bad men out there but there are plenty of bad women too, just find a good person and stop trying to blame society problems on the misbehavior or bad judgement of specific demographics it never works and is rarely useful

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Anonymous

#16 6d

Whoops sorry 5 meant to respond to OP again there

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Anonymous

OP 6d

Also I know I’m going to get downvoted but I will offer a bit of an olive branch: you can try to speak up for and call out injustices when you see them but it needs to be down in a productive way that doesn’t generalize and put down straight women for bad judgement. Call it out when you see it and help or just help foster a culture of better decision making against toxicity, dont fight toxicity by being toxic or prejudiced in a different way

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Anonymous

#10 5d

30–40% of lesbian marriages end in divorce within 10 years.

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Anonymous

#10 5d

In the US, 43.8% of lesbians report experiencing rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime.

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Anonymous 4d

You really can’t speak when you’re the community dick dude. And there is no “justification” to treating random ppl badly you’re just an ass thinking his dick gets him by

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Anonymous

#6 4d

Can men stop answering in ask women?? The question literally isn’t for you! You have your own community full of questions babe

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Anonymous

#7 4d

Be so fr, some of yall could’nt answer this question if your life depended on it because your thought process is, “its just that way” or “it just happened”. Most the answers are the exact same anyway

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Anonymous

#6 4d

A lot of us just answered. You don’t speak for women. Especially the women in this context if you’re the perpetrator of the problem so please STFU and humble yourself

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Anonymous

#4 4d

Im not even the perpetrator, it takes two to tango. Ik what im doing lmao, I just don’t fw liars, pick a side.

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Anonymous

#6 4d

Firstly no one said that we all gave good answers, secondly it doesnt fucking matter if you think that bc regardless this is in ASK WOMEN and you are not a woman.

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Anonymous

#7 4d

cry about it

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Anonymous

#6 4d

You are the one blowing my phone up with all your comments on this most, move on buddy

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Anonymous 4d

That has nothing to do with the post what are you even talking about? Sex literally doesn’t make you a hoe. Sex is just what it is. Sex. The real hoe is you complaining about the ppl you willfully gave your dick top and used them for their bodies and manipulated them and treated them like shit. Only whores don’t care about the person they slept with

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Anonymous

#4 4d

But I hope you find something better to do with your life 🥰

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