Anonymous #1 6w

Why Also incel is a state of being not an identity

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Anonymous OP 6w

Well for one its kinda like saying "Im an alpha" kinda vibes two. Its clear that you have confidence issues bc of the way that you're describing yourself and thats a major turnoff

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Anonymous OP 6w

I think it is an identity though, there are plenty of virgins out there who are normal and don’t self-identify as “incels”

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Anonymous OP 6w

It’s definitely an identity

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Anonymous #1 6w

It’s not confidence issues, this is directly how women have described me. I’m creating a video debunking the idea that “confidence” is attractive. It’s just that attractive guys tend to be the ones confident in the first place because they’re the ones who always get validated and loved. Also, confidence with girls as an ugly guy is considered harassment.

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Anonymous #2 6w

“I’m a virgin but I’m not a incel!” is a totally false idea. Incel directly means Involuntary Celibate. If you’re a virgin, and you want a girlfriend, but you can’t find one, then you’re an incel. It’s like saying “I’m in the US army, not the military!” Its the same thing no matter how much you wanna cope

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Anonymous OP 6w

Theres a logical fallacy if Ive ever seen one. Trying to use false equivalencies to describe something. You're gonna give the whole spiel about how the definition of incel means this when someone says the definition has changed to mean something different. Like dude you're doing this to yourself

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Anonymous OP 6w

I really disagree, I think there is a state of mind that separates “incels”from other people who are down on their luck & not getting laid. It’s more of a squares and rectangles thing (all incels are sexless but not all sexless people are incels) and I think your analogy is a false equivalency.

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Anonymous OP 6w

To address the confidence parts. If you were going in for a job interview would you describe yourself as someone who is always late and lazy? Or would you describe yourself as someone who is on time and a hardworker to your interviewer? Then imagine applying that to dating. If you told a girl "hey Im an ugly incel" that doesn't sound too appealing.

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