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How and where can I approach without making women uncomfortable? I see so many things online that say women don’t want to be approached in stores or hobby places, but I’m not into bars or clubs. What do I do?
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Anonymous 5w

read body language. if a girl is closed off, not friendly or open with you, or seems to be busy, then that is not a good time to approach. and be fun.

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Anonymous 5w

Only do it in the proper environments. If u ask out a girl in a coffee shop it’s much less likely that she says yes compared to asking out a girl in a bar

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Anonymous 5w

I know I went in places you described to try and find somebody out of desperation—I’d recommend maybe making a passing remark and read the mood and body language

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Anonymous 5w

It’s honestly just up to the person. Women would say they don’t want to be approached anywhere (not even the bars or clubs). It really is just hit or miss. You’ll be labeled a creep only after you’ve interacted with them and they’ve evaluated whether or not they like you. The real question would be not where, but how can you come off as instantly likable/ charismatic. It also has a lot to do with how the individual woman is personally susceptible to your engagement.Just shoot your shot and learn

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

The thing is, I’m not old enough to drink yet and I’m not into bar hopping like that. Is there any other possible way?

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