I mean as kindly as possibly it does depend on what she was busy with, but if it’s nothing serious then she probably just isn’t prioritizing you bc if I rlly like a guy I’ll prioritize him even if I’m busy just to fill him in on what I’m doing

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Seriously, end of the day communication is king. If she can’t communicate *why* she’s busy and ghosting you, then you’re clearly not in the top 5 things she’s interested in spending time focused on.

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it depends on you. she could legitimately be busy and that's fine, but if you believe you should be prioritized and they don't prioritize you then you should leave. someone else will treat you how you think you should be treated

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if you want someone who communicates better then yeah maybe move on if you guys aren’t far enough along to discuss that kind of thing (i’d assume not if you’re asking here) even if she is that busy, it’s ok to want your partner to have a more compatible style of communication.

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Go next most the girls commenting wouldn’t tolerate this but expect you to

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Depends, this happened to me and I was genuinely busy (my mom was in the hospital) and this guy completely flipped out and started cursing at me and accused me of hating him. Could either be the truth or her wanting some space, either way it’s best just to honor what she said at face value, she could be dealing with something sensitive that she doesn’t want to disclose yet.

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