
i deal with baby fever by thrifting baby clothes now and then and keeping it in a box for my future children. my rule is to buy for both genders. so if i limit myself to 4 items i search for 2 girl pieces and 2 boy pieces. also like, focusing on your goals with your children in mind. for me: get this degree and save money. i want them in the best house and neighborhood my husband and i can afford. i want them to live better than me rn, wear better clothes than me rn, eat better food than me etc.