That’s on her, sadly you can’t please everyone and some people will expect more from you than you can realistically give It’s healthy to communicate about your schedule and when you’ll be able to talk to her, so I don’t think you did anything wrong here

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Give her enough attention:/ How do I have both😭

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80 hours a week is nuts, that can’t be healthy

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It sounds like you and her aren’t compatible. A woman saying she likes that you work hard, or likes a hard working man in general, is not necessarily a synonym for “I’m cool with him working 80-hour weeks”. Personally, i would prefer someone who works hard in 40 hours and has time and energy to spend together. To me, time is more valuable than money after basic needs are met.

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Think of it this way.. is all that money worth it if you can’t enjoy it with those you love? I agree with #4 in that I also love a hard worker but wouldn’t be with them if what they had to do to make that money or have the job they want would mean I’d barely see them, I’d rather them work less hours and make less money (especially when you make as much as you where the majority of it is probably unnecessary and spent on luxuries not necessities) but I get to actually spend time with them than

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I understand wanting more attention, but if she got into the relationship knowing how your work schedule was then she should be understanding of that. But it can suck when you want attention from your partner but they’re not there

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I mean sometimes that’s just how it is with her I guess. But I do agree that I think a lot of women who say they want a hard working man with a high paying job underestimate the time commitment that goes into thag

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Damn what do you do that pays you that much 😮‍💨

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If you’re smart with investing you could get easily 100-200k from annotation 350k capital investment. That means you could earn 200k a year by doing nothing besides managing a stock portfolio of 350k

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