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Is it a red flag if you’re boyfriend says he expects you to be submissive to him when you get married 😹
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Anonymous 2w

GIRL THATS A RED PLANET WHAT 😨😨😨😨😨😨

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Anonymous 2w

i sent your order to the flag factory and they said they'll get their largest red flag your way asap

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Anonymous 2w

Girl the tornado sirens are going off

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Anonymous 2w

I’m what context… cuz if it’s like in an old-fashion stay at home mom kinda way- if ur into that- I don’t see anything wrong… but like a, follow my every order way…. Eughh

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Anonymous 2w

Yes

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Anonymous 2w

Girl.

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Anonymous 2w

Yes. I just told my boyfriend and he said that’s weird. And I agree!!!!

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Anonymous 2w

Only if you’re not a mid 20th c trad wife conservative Christian.

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Anonymous 2w

it depends on if u agree with that or not

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Anonymous 2w

send him my way instead 🌚🌚🌚

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 2w

i know plenty of girls who specifically want to be submissive to their husbands

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 2w

Regardless it’s a red flag to “expect” that of someone who doesn’t want that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

did u read my comment bc the very first thing i said was if she agrees with that expectation

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 2w

obviously if she doesn’t want that then they aren’t compatible

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

spoiler alert christianity is far from being the only widely practiced religion with traditional values, and trad wives are not the only ones who have some sort of domestic hierarchy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

it's bad either way because it's not up to HIM to decide that

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

it is up to him to tell her what he wants in a marriage early on and if she doesn’t like it then she should leave

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 2w

women are allowed to want a provider man in a marriage, men are allowed to want submissive women, women can want submissive men, etc, people are ALLOWED to have whatever preference or dealbreaker of a dynamic they want for their relationship, y’all are tripping

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 2w

its GOOD that he is telling her that he expects his wife to be submissive. now if she also wants to be a submissive wife, which plenty of women do and plenty don’t, then she can make the decision to leave or stay with him based on that information and if it aligns with what SHE wants in a marriage

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 2w

That’s something you need to tell your person of interest BEFORE you get serious. You should not be surprising your bf or gf with these expectations

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I completely agree and I personally always ask those questions all the way up to “how many kids do you want” on the first date but most of my friends do not and consider that moving too fast

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 2w

Besides lots of people don’t know what they actually want and then realize what they want while being in a relationship in which case he should obviously tell her

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 1w

Pardon me, I didn’t realize I was obligated to give an exhaustive list. 🙄🙄🙄🖕

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