what is the appeal of marrying young? I get companionship but is there no merit to working hard on your own, buying something in your name? getting married during college just feels really fast, if you like someone is a year or two going to change that?
Idk I would never do it personally but I guess everyone lives a different life
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Anonymous16w
Only time I understand it is if they’ve literally known each other since they were kids or something
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Anonymous16w
I don’t want to marry young but for people who do I think it’s usually because they either think it’s something they’re expected by society to do or because they’re religious and want to have sex without feeling bad about it
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Anonymous16w
I generally wouldn’t see it. But I met my partner in highschool so by the time we graduate college I feel confident I’m gonna be ready to be his wife. I just love the idea of him calling me that and stuff 🥰
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Anonymous16w
making your very christian family happy, presumably
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Anonymous#216w
they are religious but they are having sex. also she gave up a really good career to get engaged to him, and converted, 8 months of dating
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Anonymous#316w
tbh that’s adorable and i love that for you!!! im more talking about before graduation, no solid job or income, and short relationship type deal!! i feel like 4+ years with someone justifies marriage
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AnonymousOP16w
Oh yeah that makes sense no I do not get the appeal of marriage during college we ain’t got time for that lol. But different people are in different positions . Some people even have homes and stuff so idk they can do them