told my parents i have a boyfriend and my dad's reaction was just "again? i thought i made my thoughts clear after last time" i am 20 i basically just told him i dont care. what do i even do in this situation
for context- i don't live at home, dad is upset he didn't get introduced before we made things official. said he had some things to talk about as men without me being there 😭 i told him that's ridiculous and not happening
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Anonymous3d
extremely weird response
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Anonymous2d
lmao in ten years he’s gonna be like why haven’t you given me grandchildren yet
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Anonymous2d
He’s being over protective, I would try to avoid bringing it up
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AnonymousOP3d
“Talk about as men” I’m sorry what the hell does that even mean? Sounds like some shit my dad would say
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AnonymousOP3d
Guy here, do you have peacock?
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Anonymous#23d
Or have you seen Brooklynn 99
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Anonymous#33d
From who?
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Anonymous#33d
If it was me, theres a specific episode where Santiago rips her dad and jake a new one because they’re fighting over if he is good enough for her and she basically says idgaf what either of you say i can decide for myself
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Anonymous#23d
from the dad. I didn't reply to you
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Anonymous#33d
Ohhh, i sometimes fuck up replies and was mildly confused
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Anonymous#12d
Probably he will threaten the boy or something, since he doesn’t want her to be there to see it
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Anonymousjimmyincellerino2d
^^
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Anonymous#62d
no for real, he's been tell me since maybe 15 that he wants grandkids by the time i'm 21 but then he freaks out any time i mention a man
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Anonymous#62d
he also wasn't a fan of the idea of me being a lesbian though so idrk what he wants 😭
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Anonymous#62d
it's giving really wants to have grandkids but isn't willing to see me be an adult
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Anonymous#52d
that's what i was trying to do, last time i had a bf he yelled at me for not introducing them before making things official and i wasn't even gonna mention it to him but my brother brought it up in front of the whole family
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Anonymous#32d
i agree. i feel objectified in a way if that makes sense ? like, he wants to feel like he has control over me until another man that he approves of has control over me
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Anonymous#12d
that's what i'm saying like what could you possibly need to say to my poor shy boyfriend 😭
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Anonymous#22d
no...
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AnonymousOP2d
you have it exactly right.
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AnonymousOP2d
Man that’s annoying
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Anonymous#32d
sigh. perks of growing up in the bible belt i guess. too bad idgaf what he thinks
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Anonymous#52d
yeah... oh well. at least i know im not the crazy one