Anonymous #1 9w

To clarify, this means that u WOULD date the guy, not that u will fs (?).

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 9w

So first impressions rlly do matter

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Anonymous OP 9w

That kind of makes me more nervous abt approaching 😭💀

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Anonymous OP 9w

I mean that in the 10 min we talk, if you say or do shit thats bad or good depends on whether im even gonna keep talking to you

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Anonymous hellraiser 9w

So u could be friends w/ a guy for 5 months and then decide u wanna date him?

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Anonymous OP 9w

uhh prolly not tbh

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Anonymous #6 9w

What?! How?

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Anonymous OP 9w

Do u just mean appearance?

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Anonymous OP 9w

For me it’s less first impressions and more how you act. Appearance doesn’t play much of a role. If I find out quickly our morals align? Then yeah I might be able to see it. I can very quickly tell when someone isn’t for me.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 9w

So let’s say I bring up I’m liberal and how important education is to me. That does it for u?

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Anonymous OP 9w

I mean as long as I can tell youre telling the truth. And not an extremist

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Anonymous OP 9w

Well they can tell if the man is awkward or likeable in very short time

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Anonymous OP 9w

That’s not it of course. Being a liberal and caring about education is important to me but so is: how you speak to me, if you are nice, how you talk about others- any of those being negative? No dice.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 9w

This ^^

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Anonymous OP 9w

i guess it does take a shorter amount of time to establish a romantic or sexual connection.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 9w

So u like when a guy is nice? I thought that makes u want to be friends more than date?

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Anonymous OP 9w

If I’m not willing to be friends with someone I won’t be willing to date them. They absolutely need to be nice for me to even consider dating them.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 9w

That makes sense. And if u date someone who’s not as nice, it’s bc they still seemed nice when u first met them

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Anonymous OP 9w

Exactly. My qualifications for a romantic partner are much higher than one for just my friends. But if they don’t even seem to be a friend? What’s the point.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 9w

I wonder how this compares to guys. Would I date a girl who isn’t nice and I wouldn’t be friends with? That’s an interesting question…

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Anonymous OP 9w

That answer should be no, but feel we might sometimes date a girl who isn’t the nicest if we find her physically attractive

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Anonymous OP 9w

Yeah I would never do that. I would never date someone who isn’t nice because of physical attractiveness. It’s just against my morals.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 9w

Yeah…I see where guys can go wrong sometimes in that respect. Hard for many of us to separate sexual attraction from the other stuff

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Anonymous OP 9w

That's jusf weird dude

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Anonymous #1 9w

😭. It’s true

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Anonymous #8 9w

Fr?

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Anonymous OP 9w

Depending on the guy, just based on the way he’s dressed or the way he greets me that can immediately tell me if he’s dateable for me personally. If his pants are sagging down his butt, (like he’s going for that style) immediate no. If he greets me with a pathetic “wassup babygirl you bad asf” then that’s also a no😂 I’m looking for a guy who has his stuff together, is respectful, and has strong values that he exudes through his behavior

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Anonymous #8 9w

U mean “wassup baby girl u bad asf” doesn’t work? 😭💀

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Anonymous OP 9w

Yeah that’s a big problem. I can find someone attractive but I don’t want sex unless I’m in a relationship.

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Anonymous OP 9w

That's why you get denied tbh. We can tell when men just want us for sex

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