Oh, that’s different. If he can’t find someone to hook up with him, that doesn’t make him an incel in most women’s minds. We hear “incel” and think “part of incel culture, probably feels entitled to sex and blames women for not wanting him”. If he just can’t find someone to do it with him but hasn’t fallen down the internet incel hole, he’s all good. Probably just hasn’t looked in the right places.