Anonymous #6 5w

if sex is taking the life outta you, you’re doing it wrong tbh

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Anonymous hellraiser 5w

After about 5 bodies there’s a type of emptiness that you can tell is with someone’s eyes. They don’t have any emotions, they don’t have any soul. It’s natural for people to be able to read emotions based on how expressions can look with eyes, and people who become empty and devoted to nothing but sex are the most devoid and lifeless people on the entire planet.

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Anonymous #7 5w

lots of casual sex. over years for me personally . i was single for a few years and got similar numbers. just wasn’t into relationships and was looking for fun encounters or more long term sexual partners. i had a not of tinder meetups. lotta casual dates. lotta heat of the moment situations. it prolly sounds crazy to someone with a drastically different lifestyle. but it’s not like i was tryna find someone new every week to have sex with. my frequency was never even that high

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Anonymous #6 5w

well that’s just not true lmfao. just because you’ve been with a lot of people doesn’t mean you have devoted your life to sex or that you don’t have a soul. quite frankly that is absurd. there is no backing for anything that you are saying. to imply that number of sexual partners is correlated with how many emotions you have ? lmao what are you even talking about. sure lots of people who engage in casual sex do so in an unhealthy way, but it’s likely a symptom of depression or mental illness

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Anonymous #6 5w

not that the cause sex is ruining their soul and making them devoid of life. i have a life and a purpose and dreams and goals. it took minimal effort to accumulate many sexual partners. in the mean time i’m one class away from a bachelors degree, i work part time, also work in a lab as a researcher, have friends, hobbies, interests. im full of life. i’ve had my struggles, but i am not less of a person because of the ways in which i have sought pleasure in life.

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Anonymous hellraiser 5w

It is true. Stacking up bodies is gross. Imagine trying to possible have a family with someone who has tossed aside over 50 people sex wise? Like there’s not even a specialty in the act that’s supposed to give you children, much less the fact it’s the most romantic act two people can have between each other Super gross to have a differing opinion.

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Anonymous hellraiser 5w

Like you’re finally comfortable with giving someone your body and being close enough to have sex with them, and then they shrug and are like “man 14 others were better than you” before moving on What an insufferable person

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Anonymous #6 5w

“super gross to have a differing person” 😭 ain’t even tryna be open minded lmfao. look i get it, if you’re not into casual sex, don’t date someone who’s into casual sex. no one cares what you do. why do you care what other ppl do? you are literally making up scenarios to be mad at. you don’t have to have the same view as someone. plenty of people with high body counts are dating people, getting married, having families. who do you think you are that you get to decide what sex should be ?

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Anonymous #6 5w

personally i don’t think sex is the most romantic or even intimate act you can do with someone. emotional intimacy and connecting with someone in non physical ways is far deeper to me. but that doesn’t mean that i can’t find sex with someone i love to be incredibly passionate and intimate. my boyfriend both have been with over 50 people and were crazy about each other, and have insanely intimate meaningful sex

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Anonymous #6 5w

i’m not here to change your mind or make you date someone with a high body count but you could probably afford to be a little more open minded and educated. just a thought.

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Anonymous hellraiser 5w

You can go down that road but it’s gross either way Everybody can have their opinion in the end though.

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Anonymous hellraiser 5w

Why are you so upset about someone pointing out how gross it is? Don’t comment that and expect it to be the norm next time. You’re acting like I targeted you specifically

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Anonymous #6 5w

that’s your opinion but you also happen to be spreading misconceptions and harmful generalizations in the expression of your opinion.

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Anonymous hellraiser 5w

Don’t say “harmful” there’s nothing harmful about recognizing that excessive sex is gross. It is my opinion, and to say it’s “harmful” is your insecurity overreach due to being a sex addict

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Anonymous #6 5w

I only have a body count of two but I feel like what if somebody just had a face in their past or something like exploring doesn’t mean their lifeless some people just change but anyways according to this the average person has about a body count of 4 to 10 or 10 to 11 some people are higher. Some people are lower and that’s fine.

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Anonymous antarticcat 5w

And 50 is beyond weird. We’ve established that. But trying to normalize it? That’s gross. Obviously.

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Anonymous antarticcat 5w

Phase not face lol

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Anonymous #6 5w

appreciate the concern but i do not meet the qualifications for sex addition, nor do i have any insecurities regarding my sex life. im very open about it and believe strongly that sex should not be a source of shame. you are contributing to broader systems of sexual guilt and it actually is harmful for both on the societal and individual level.

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Anonymous #6 5w

i understand you’re probably not as well educated on these kinds of topics but research overwhelmingly suggests that there is far more nuance to this beyond “lots of partners= gross/ bad/ damaging”

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Anonymous hellraiser 5w

Again so much blabbering. Sexual guilt is not only natural, it is normal. Don’t act like what I’m spewing is “harmful” having sex with 40 people is because it ups your chances of catching a STD

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Anonymous #6 5w

at the end of the day, everyone should act in accordance to their morals, and values and in a way that is not damaging to themselves or others, whatever that may look like.

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Anonymous #6 5w

You know personally in my opinion, I don’t think sleeping with a lot of people is the best choice but people make mistakes and I’m not gonna judge someone I have a friend that has a 300 body count

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Anonymous antarticcat 5w

We went to elementary school together in middle school together and in high school we went to summer camps together. I don’t really view him any different but I was just shocked by that number.

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Anonymous antarticcat 5w

I feel like shaming people for a high body count is not gonna point them in the right direction I also don’t think you lose the life out of your eyes after a body count of five that’s just around the average American

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Anonymous antarticcat 5w

Shaming people is just gonna make it worse honestly because it’ll be like what’s the point I’m already gonna get shamed anyway and then they won’t be encouraged to make better choices

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Anonymous hellraiser 5w

I mean if it’s for religious reasons then that should be okay. Like I’m waiting for marriage due to my religious beliefs but I don’t shame others for choosing differently. However I do expect my partner to have waited/want to wait as well just as a preference for the type of partner I want to be with

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Anonymous #6 5w

I’m already emotionless and soulless to begin with so this just tells me I have nothing to lose

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Anonymous hellraiser 5w

Hey Hellraiser! I’m a guy, and I don’t know if the people shaming you in the comments are men or women, but I just want to tell you that I look up to and admire you and your openness and positivity around sex. You rock! Fuck the haters, and keep on doing you 🫶🏻

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Anonymous #11 5w

“I’m a guy” we know bro

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Anonymous #6 5w

What is that supposed to mean?

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