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need advice. I've been with my bf since i was 15 (now 20). he was my first boyfriend. Our relationship has always been bumpy but we've never taken any breaks or anything of that sort. The bumps were almost 100% bc of him. Continued in comments
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Anonymous 1d

Break up. Anyone who threatens to kill themselves when they are found out is not a good person

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Anonymous 1d

part 2. Texting another girl (girl bsf) for months insulting me with her, pecking his friend (who he admitted to having a crush on in the past, but now says he never actually did) on the lips, getting drunk/high and trying to hide it from me, not sleeping with me for 5+ months (multiple instances) but still watching porn, threaten to kill himself when i found the texts, being outright mean to me and after i call him out he'll cry and swear to change but he will actually just be very sweet for-

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Anonymous 1d

pls leave him

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Anonymous 1d

If you think you could someday, after the period is mourning the relationship, be happier alone then with him, break up. The chances of him getting better are low

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

part 3. a week or two before going back to being an ass, does not take care of basic adult responsibilities (like opening a bank account not controlled by his parents, getting logged into mychart, getting a job, etc)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

part 4. but he has done some sweet things. he doesn't take me on dates (like literally he doesnt) but he fulfills my small needs. he will get up to grab me things from another room, he'll ask me about my day, scratch my back to help me sleep, help me pay for things when i got fired (side note: fired for filing worker's compensation), carried me to the car when i injured my spine so i could go to the ER. So i don't know what to do. l've always planned on marrying this man

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

seems like the cons still outweigh the pros but follow your heart i guess. his cheating history and the going on dates is absurd tho and definitely reasonable grounds for a breakup

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1d

*not going on dates

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