Anonymous #1 13w

Do you try to actively avoid? Curious

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Anonymous OP 13w

No

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 13w

Wish everyone had your mindset

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Anonymous OP 13w

Yeah most people do. A lot of the time when you have low confidence in yourself you feel that more people hate/ are upset with you than they actually are.

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Anonymous #4 13w

Simps and desperate men don’t

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Anonymous OP 13w

Desperate men don’t see women as human they just see us as potential girlfriends and wives

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Anonymous #4 13w

The only guys that treat women like garbage at least most of the time are Chads

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Anonymous OP 13w

Nah straight up incorrect

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Anonymous #4 13w

That’s why I said most of the time good looking dudes can act how they want because they have power in the relationship

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Anonymous OP 13w

Why would a good looking dude have any more power than a bad looking dude? Both most likely have the ability to overpower their gf. You have a flawed perspective on all this

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Anonymous #4 13w

Because women value good looking men it’s biological not so easy to leave vs an average guy

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Anonymous OP 13w

I hate to tell you this but the creepiest men I have known were kinda average looking. I agree with you the attractive fuckboy type is usually awful, but average and ugly men also have the audacity sometimes. My best friend for example has a curse where every kind of ugly dude who is also creepy stalks her, touches her without consent, harasses her, etc. non of those guys have been attractive

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Anonymous OP 13w

That has nothing to do with it, it’s going to be hard to leave someone you are emotionally attached to regardless of how conventionally attractive they are. Again flawed perspective.

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Anonymous #6 13w

That seems like more of an exception because I feel like in this day and age because of me too, and SA allegations, ugly, and unattractive men are twice as likely to think about doing anything they can’t afford it

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Anonymous #4 13w

No fr I was repeatedly told by others my first bf looked like a human troll doll (I didn’t agree back then) and he was a total creep to me, wouldn’t respect a single boundary, I still couldn’t leave for sooo long bc I was emotionally attached and inexperienced

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Anonymous OP 13w

Well if it’s an exception, it’s an exception that my friend repeatedly runs into long after the me too movement. And she’s not the only one I’ve seen it with just the most prominent example bc it happens to her constantly

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Anonymous #6 13w

Those medium ugly dudes are the hardest to get over I stg

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Anonymous #4 13w

If you attracted they ain’t ugly

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Anonymous OP 13w

The thing is I wasn’t sexually attracted to him either (I thought it was bc I was young, then bc I was asexual but it turned out it’s bc from the beginning he never asked my consent for anything and it shut my body down). Just deeply romantically bonded.

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Anonymous OP 13w

This is what men fail to understand. Individual types are way different than what is conventionally deemed attractive. He was attractive to me, but societally unattractive and unattractive to you lol

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Anonymous #4 13w

No fr that too. I may not have been attracted to him at the time. But in my eyes I loved how he looked. Everyone else told me he was like so ugly though. I see it now not then

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Anonymous #6 13w

Ok but you find him attractive not ugly

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Anonymous OP 13w

He’s ugly to others, attractive to me. That’s how attraction works

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Anonymous OP 13w

That doesn’t make him not ugly though. Different people have different tatses

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