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Is it wrong to have racial preferences in dating and to articulate said preferences?
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Anonymous 7w

You don’t have to tell people you have a race preference, you just date people within that preference instead

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Anonymous 7w

It’s the fact that you brought up race unprompted. It comes off as very important to you which feels weird

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Anonymous 7w

Your preference is rooted in racism in which we’re not gonna explain it to you any further

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Anonymous 7w

There’s a fine line between a preference & fetishization. You can have a preference for blondes, for instance, but if you prefer blondes bc you think they’re dumb & you find that hot, you’re in fetishization territory. You’ve selected your partner bc you have a hard on for a stereotype, not bc you love the person. The problem with people who complain about not being able to have a “preference,” is that they probably have a fetish, but aren’t willing to understand why that’s bad.

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Anonymous 6w

Reading thru ur comments, ur just porn-brained and reinforcing rape culture

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Anonymous 7w

So just say you’re a racist maga asshole then

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Anonymous 7w

a race PREFERENCE is still weird but fine but a race requirement is wrong

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Anonymous 6w

While I see what everyone is saying about having racial preferences being rooted in racism, personally, I would say I have more of cultural preferences. Or atleast maybe I have racial preferences because of culture and my family. Anyways I’d like to add that if I were single and looking to date, I would still date out of my own race but would prefer not to because it would be easier for my partner and I to understand each others families and traditions. But again everyone is different

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Anonymous 6w

It’s literally only about how you come to those preferences. Is there depth to it? Are there literally zero circumstances that would ever lead you to date them? How much prejudice do you carry with it? Lotta people here acting like this isn’t strong culture in the black community as well; to preserve race

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Anonymous 6w

OP, don’t listen to these people. A core requirement of being racist is the belief of superiority of one human over another based on race. You aren’t racist, just curious. That being said, it is wrong to tell a person you aren’t attracted to them because of their race. That statement would be unnecessarily rude. It’s better to say you aren’t attracted to that person and keep it at that.

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Anonymous 7w

Def not racist

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Anonymous 7w

Not at all. Lots of people have a race preference. If people get mad about it, they’re looking for an issue. If you only like black people, or only are attracted to Asians, or might only see interest in a white person, anybody making you feel ashamed is a pos

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

I am white. I’m not Going to explain it to u any further

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I like what I like 🤷‍♂️. I don’t have high standards, but my preferences are very rigid, and caucasian features are a part of my preferences.

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

So uh that’s racist

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Sure. Whatever.

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

Literally has nothing to do with anything. Just means you use whiteness as an excuse to be racist

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

I’m not MAGA. I’m a Democrat

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

Sureee.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

AOC 2028 💯

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

So how does being racist work with that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

Idk. U tell me 🤷‍♂️😭

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

Maybe stop shitposting and figure it out yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

The answer is that my relationship with other races and groups of ppl has no bearing on who I do or don’t want to fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

Yeah but there’s no need to explicitly state it. That’s what makes it become an issue

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

That or they believe in “racial purity” or whatever the fuck the dogwhistle is for it now. It’s basically just a sign of Neo-nazism in white folk. With POC or minority cultures it gets more nuanced, and I don’t have the grounds to speak on much of it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

So if I like Latinas cuz of big butts, is that fetishization? I was hesitant to say I liked Latinas w/ big butts earlier for this reason

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

Uh. Yeah. 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

I wouldn’t say it roots in racism. I’m an indian woman who prefers to date black or indian men. I’m almost never attracted to Hispanic men even tho they’re also brown skinned. That doesn’t mean I hate Hispanic people. I’m just not romantically attracted to them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

That’s not the same thing but yes what he said was rooted in racism. A lot of things have a racial motivation even if you’re blind to it

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

and also you aren't born inherently attracted to one race, thats just not how it works. you're conditioned by your surroundings. white people who grow up in black spaces tend to me more attracted to black people, and black people who grew up in white spaces tend to me attracted to white people. those r okay! however, if your preferences is just based on racial stereotypes, then thats not okay and you should do some soul searching on why that may be.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

like how you literally said you like big booty latinas, and i'm almost willing to bet money the reason you don't like black women is due to the stereotypes around them being "loud" or "overweight" and "ghetto" not bc you're actually physically not attracted to them. since there is no way you possibly have seen every single black woman in the world.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

I’ve seen attractive Black women, but I wasn’t attracted to them the same way I am to a beautiful Latina with long pretty black hair and glowing olive skin

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

again, the preference for latinas doesn't need to be rooted in racial stereotypes. not all latinas have black hair and olive skin, and not all them even have big booties. that's what makes it weird.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

I’m talking abt the Latinas I find attractive 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

I’m guessing ur either Black Or Latina

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

and how are we supposed to know that? you're using latinas as a monolith, and not specifying a specific person. you found a specific latina attractive, doesn't mean all latinas everywhere look like her. in fact latinas are probably the most diverse ethnicity out there. there r white latinas, black latinas, asian latinas, the list goes on.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

I like white and Indigenous Latinas

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

like you shouldn't find someone attractive BECAUSE they fit your latina stereotype

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

I just find them attractive, cuz of how they look. It’s entirely visual. Why do u care so much?

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

like literally everyones been telling u its enforcing eurocentric beauty standards and negative racist stereotypes! not to mention being really weird and fetishy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

I like European and Indigenous. I’d add Native American women to my preferences actually. Also seen hot Indian (from India) women. I’m just horny😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

Do u have a dog in this fight?

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

like if u put outside of a racial context, if person A was really into blondes and only started dating person B bc they were blonde and then person B dyed their hair brown and person A dumped them bc they were no longer blonde. imagine how that would make person B feel? that they were only liked by A bc of their hair color.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

That’s valid tho for person A

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

not really? person A was so superficial that they couldn't manage to love someone for who they are. physically beauty fades. yes it will bring you in, but if something as simple as a hair color manages to make you lose all attraction to your partner means you never loved them in the first place.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

Hmm

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

Ig as long as she’s still attractive overall

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

U think I’m gooning to women’s bodies too much?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Can you explain why you think his post was rooted in racism? Maybe I’m not seeing what you’re seeing

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

say you ended up dating that pretty latina girl u were referring too earlier. honestly lets say u guys get married, and 40 years from now after a couple of kids, she's old. has lost her youthful glow, her hair is short and gray, and she's gained some weight im her old age. are u gonna divorce her bc you're not physically attracted to her anymore??

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

I’d say it was racially insensitive, not racist

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

probably! you're only lusting after women, dating and actively being in a relationship is more than just sex. sex when you're in love is very different than sex when you're horny and looking for a quick fuck. you can have preferences, hell i prefer latino men and im dating one right now but im not only dating him bc he's latino.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Yeah nvm 😭 I read of the other convos. now I see what you were talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

unless you don't ever want to marry or find love. you can keep just fucking young hot women your whole life if you want. i don't really care what u do

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

I have a high libido rn. That could change as I get older

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

I feel like I need to jerk off multiple times a day just to control my libido

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

or it could stay the same, plenty of old ppl still have high libidos. literally nursing homes are hook up central

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

like the whole show Golden Girls was abt high libido old people 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

i was like that too, but honestly once i found love now im only horny for my bf. i couldn't really imagine fucking another person. it honestly amazing bc he's the same level of horny as me

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

Dude don’t waste your breath anymore. This guy is jestering for femme attention.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

Nah. She seems sweet. I’m having a good faith conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

That’s what I need fr. If I had a good sex life, I’d probably be more chill and not lusting after every woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

oh i know im gonna go to sleep now

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

Aye see this creep shit is why you ain’t getting laid.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

Ik, I said I have high libido

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

Cool. Stop making it everyone else’s problem.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

#5 discovers both parties can in fact be racist

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Anonymous 7w

Wow you dense airhead you missed the point

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

It’s not…they’re saying the truth. You can say you don’t date blondes as you can say you don’t date [insert race] and people that get offended are too soft and are too used to cancel culture

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

They clearly want to make this a race issue. And yes, many people are just not attracted to a certain appearance. I wouldn’t date an Indian man because I’m not attracted to their features. Like bro, they’re making this soooo out of shape

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

Never dated anyone not white and it’s fine with me. Idk why people want to try and change how people feel because why would, if I’m not attracted to non-whites- why would anyone not white want to date me if I’m not attracted to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

Yeah so that’s racist babe

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

That’s not the truth. Bc not everyone from every race looks the same. Idk why it’s so hard for racist ppl to just admit their racist instead of making excuses but they’ll happily admit to anything else 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

this is a race requirement which is racist 😭 you can't assume every Indian man looks the same

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

Ok then. Let’s change my phrasing. I want to date tall men with blonde hair and blue/green eyes and have freckles. I would like someone who has the same cultural background as me, European/UK.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

She’s the same girl in the other post arguing about it saying she has an African friend that said the same thing. Had to block her

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

Thank u, #7 🙂

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

that's fine if thats again your preference but if you assume you won't be attracted at all to an indian is a racist assumption

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Anonymous 7w

Fr. I’m a liberal and this feels like ppl are overly sensitive to me. Who gives a f 😭. This is the kind of shit that makes Dems insufferable

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 7w

Fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

I’m not assuming. I’ve never been attracted to an Indian. I have seen loads and they just do not have any attributes that are attractive to me. I’m attracted to blonde haired, blue or green eyed tall men with freckles. What Indian do you know who is this because that’s a new one for me

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

you are assuming, you're making a racial stereotype! all indians don't look the same and its racist you think they do. irs also racist to assume you will be attracted to someone just bc they have blonde hair or blue/green eyes!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

a blonde hair blue eyes indian isn’t as rare as you’re thinking. But even if you found one, you’d only be attracted to them because they’re white passing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

And there’s nothing wrong with that. Would u care this much abt height requirements (smthg else u can’t control) as race requirements in dating?

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

You’re a liberal yet you’re racist? You sure you aren’t liberal bc you know it’ll get girl’s attention towards you bc usually republicans can be a small red flag bc of their morals? Bc you hold a lot of stereotypes that the right uphold

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Bc I’m ngl from your reputation you base your personality on what gets attention. Your true self gets hidden bc deep down women don’t like it which is why you express it online bc there’s no one to come at you physically. You even said you don’t talk to girls outside of yikyak. Is that out of fear, intimidation, or fear of being outed

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

It’s very weird to like someone just because they’re white passing 😭. It’s okay to have a preference. But if you’re not even willing to get to know someone solely because they don’t have blonde hair blue eyes, that’s discrimination. It’s as simple as that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

What gets attention is controversy. My true self is more boring, in a good way. I’ve literally volunteered for a Democrat’s campaign before

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

You know that’s not how that works right? You can’t say your true self and you use an online persona that’s racist. Bc your true self still has a type and your type is rooted in discrimination. But having an online persona that’s racist and sexist does not get attention in fact it makes you look like a loser that can’t respectfully express feelings without being an asshole

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Ya’ll are still talking abt me and what I said tho, right? It works lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

You can vote one thing yet still have beliefs on the other side. Plenty of men have voted Dem in the past election bc they simply know voting MAGA isn’t a good idea but also the fact that looking back at it, women did not respect the men that did, bc of what was at stake. You still uphold patriarchal views despite your voting preference. Saying women aren’t strong and feed off women’s anger, while being discriminatory when women are specifically fighting against it is contradicting

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

So you’re racist for attention. That’s actually pathetic poli sci I hope you know you’re getting no girls doing that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I don’t vote the way I do for women. I’m voting what’s best for America

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

Which is leftwing progressive policy

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

So…why uphold white superiority and patriarchal beliefs

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Words don’t equal policy

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

Words equal morals and beliefs. For a history nerd you’re truly a dumbass in how you word shit knowing what you do is racist and sexist in intent. You should know that what you say is racist and sexist if you love history so much bc of how women and minorities were treated historically

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Leftwing in terms of policy =\= culturally leftwing

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

Well that’s not good now is it? Bc how’s it been working for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Bro not every blonde looks the same either 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 6w

Yeah so what are you on about. I never said every blonde looks the same. Blonde in of itself doesn’t look the same as a hair color and won’t fit everyone the same either. But this isn’t about being blonde

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

How’s that been working for the Democratic Party? Demonizing white men

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

White men are not demonized by the Dem party or any party. You are not oppressed for being white

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I’m guessing u think Kamala lost bc she’s a Black woman and not bc she sucked as a candidate and ran on identity instead of policy

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

Same thing with Hillary CLITon

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

Yet you voted Dem. Crazy how you contradict yourself all the time and “love women”, but are racist and sexist to every woman that isn’t someone you want to fuck. I thought you were trying to “be better”. You’re still not oppressed as the most privileged race and gender of America

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

When are you gonna stop being an immature and childish asshole and actually get better poli sci

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Actually what happened to therapy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Ur the stereotypical lib who claims everyone who doesn’t agree with u is racist and sexist. U are such a stereotype, getting worked up over nothing. Ur almost as bad as the ppl u criticize

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Fuck, Gen Z women are frustrating

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

Anti-idpol leftists are somehow more irritating than MAGA. They’re capable of understanding that the status-quo exists as a form of oppression, yet when it comes to anyone’s oppression other than their own, they’re suddenly just as self-servingly obtuse.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Mb, i thought you were saying its okay to refuse to date a specific hair color but not okay to not date a specific race

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

So you’d rather me try and get to know someone that I have no romantic or sexual attraction to just on the basis of discrimination? Babes that’s just making a friend.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

And yes, if he’s white passing then maybe I’d be attracted to him, but he would have the same features. Eye structure, nose structure. It’s not what I like. Why tf does it matter to you?

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

That proves exactly why somethings should not be announced publicly. The way you started this “ attractive black woman vs beautiful Latina. Keep it to yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

bruh.

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

gosh you’re a weirdo!!

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

no, red-pill men like you are frustrating 😭😆

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

You don't understand what a preference is. It's not supposed to be a requirement. If a job application says, bachelors degree preferred it just means they prefer the candidate has a degree but that doesn't mean that only people who have degrees should apply.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6w

So why is it a problem? If I don’t want to date a non-white then it doesn’t affect you. It’s not racist babes. And jobs that want a bachelors degree will say kindly ‘thank you for your application but we are moving forwards without yours.’. Making it about race is your own issue and im quite happy dating white men that are in my attraction scale

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

Yo, so it isn’t your fault that you grew up in a culture w Eurocentric beauty standards. Finding euro/white traits attractive in and of itself isn’t a bad thing. It’s when you refuse to acknowledge that those preferences COULD be rooted in racism, while also outright saying that you could never find other racial traits attractive, AND repeatedly saying that this has NOTHING to do with race, is where you start to look bad. I ain’t saying you’re racist, but like— chill out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

So what is the implication? That I should change my preferences?

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

Cuz that’s what I have a problem with

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 6w

I barely ever watch porn. I don’t need to when women’s bodies are all over social media, scantily clad in sexually suggestive poses 🤷‍♂️😭

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

bro provided the support evidence

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6w

Of what? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

Am I still consider porn-brained if I don’t watch porn?

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

yes

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

of what 15 said

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6w

Cuz women show off their bodies online

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

except the difference is porn is in a sexual context, your mind is so sex riddled you see a women dressed provocatively and immediately put in a sexual context. what you said perfectly supports what 15 said. a woman taking s picture in a bikini or crop top isn't inherently sexual.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6w

and using the verbiage that you used is the same that rapist use to defend themselves when they rape a woman. "oh she was asking for it, look at how she was dressed" ergo supporting rape culture.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6w

I get turned on from bikini and croptop pics

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

and you should learn to control yourself bc those are posted to turn ppl on

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6w

aren't*

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

That’s gross. You only see women as sex objects. If you saw women as humans, simply seeing them exposed their stomach or legs wouldn’t turn you on

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

W/ bikinis, u can see a lot more than that

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

Also, stomachs and thighs are literally attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

The implication is to be cognizant of sociocultural impacts on peoples’ perceptions of attractiveness, to not objectify or fetishize people based on their race and/or physical characteristics, and to also not scream to the rooftops what aspects you personally find hot.

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

I’m noticing a pattern where you start slime typing late at night/early in the morning. Dude just rub one out and go to bed. You can’t act like this then wonder why women on here are so hostile toward you.

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

bikinis are a form of swim wear not to be sexualized by creeps like u

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

Ik why I’m the devil to women on here

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Anonymous replying to -> recoveringincel 6w

The devil is memorable. You’re just another trog with nothing better to do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 6w

My amount of defending it probably makes it sound deeper than it is.

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